Sex help?

The baby obviously doesn't want to share any of me with my fiance because awhile ago after we had sex our son kept moving & balling up & it hurt. The last time we did anything it was horrible, after like 10 minutes the baby balled up & it fucking hurt!! Needless to say i've lost any desire to have sex & my fiance is trying to be good about it but I know he's frustrated & to tell you the truth, I am also!

Did anyone else have this or something like it happen?  

karlyamanda wrote: The baby obviously doesn't want to share any of me with my fiance because awhile ago after we had sex our son kept moving & balling up & it hurt. The last time we did anything it was horrible, after like 10 minutes the baby balled up & it fucking hurt!! Needless to say i've lost any desire to have sex & my fiance is trying to be good about it but I know he's frustrated & to tell you the truth, I am also!

Did anyone else have this or something like it happen?  

Hmmm, sounds more like you were having contractions, which can feel like he baby is balling up. It's normal after sex because orgams causes contractions. It won't start labor, though, unless your body is ready to actually go into labor. And, with your son moving, he could definitely make it hurt worse, which is perfectly normal. But I am definitely with you on not wanting to have sex...happened to me a lot when I was pregnant with both of my other children.

I mentioned it to my doctor & she mentioned the contraction thing & i do have really bad braxton hicks but they feel different. i told her that & she said that she's not too worried about it & that we should try again etc. I'll try but if that happens again I'm done!! It hurts sooooo damn much & neither of us were even close to having an orgasm the second time. Grr!

It's funny because of how Charles words the problem but at the same time it's frustrating as all hell!

Thanks for replying by the way  

karlyamanda wrote: I mentioned it to my doctor & she mentioned the contraction thing & i do have really bad braxton hicks but they feel different. i told her that & she said that she's not too worried about it & that we should try again etc. I'll try but if that happens again I'm done!! It hurts sooooo damn much & neither of us were even close to having an orgasm the second time. Grr!

It's funny because of how Charles words the problem but at the same time it's frustrating as all hell!

Thanks for replying by the way  

No problem! It's scary, and that pain is almost paralyzing. And, the thing is, because of the extra blood flow and movement during sex, you don't even have to have an orgasm to get the contraction. It happened to me constantly with both of my other kids. It get sfrustrating. Our sex life came to a really major slow down. I did it when I felt okay to do it, but mostly, we just waited until AFTER I gave birth and healed. My husband was frustrated, but he really understood because of the intensity of the pain. I'm glad your doctor isn't worried about it, though. That's always reassuring!

if she was worried i'd have a fit  
She actually told us to try again a couple times to see what happens & we haven't really tried anything yet so we'll see i guess. wish me luck! lol