re: miscarriage?

Quoting Ms.Meg[KingBoobers]Mama:“ im not really sure, i was in too much shock to look at it closely, i think it was kinda greyish looking ... [snip!] ... im not really good at guessing length) thats all i can really remember... its like a bad dream you dont want to think about...”

mmm it kinda sounds like it.. Im so sorry.... I went thru it 4 times but lost 5 babies so I completely understand How it feels.. im here if u ever need anything or want to talk!! u can also go to the docs and have then do a blood test and it should show the hcg levels still!

hi ladies
sorry i havnt been on to update yall, im still trying to
get over the shock of everything, and trying to take it easy.
i went to my doctor friday afternoon to get blood drawn.
he took a ultrasound (is it normal to have a ultrasound done?)
he did a lot of talking but i guess i was just dazing off into space
what i do know is i was pregnant, my hcg levels on friday were
600 according to my conception date i was 7.2 weeks pregnant when
i lost my lil angel.
i asked him if my miscarriage was caused by my birth control,
and he told me not likely, that my body just wasnt ready
yet.
he told me i should have gone to the ER when i started
bleeding and cramping so bad..
i guess i was to scared too.
i have to go back on wednesday, to check my hcg levels
again.
then i have to go back when the bleeding stops to make
sure my cervix is closed?

im not too sure about everything, i couldnt concentrate
to really understand anything he was saying.
maybe on wednesday, i can ask him to repeat everything!

also he told me i have to wait a few weeks before i start
birth control again (thankfully its not yaz this time)
did anyone else have to wait a few weeks to start
BC again?

Quoting Ms.Meg[KingBoobers]Mama:“ hi ladies sorry i havnt been on to update yall, im still trying to get over the shock of everything, ... [snip!] ... i start birth control again (thankfully its not yaz this time) did anyone else have to wait a few weeks to start BC again?”

Im so sorry hunny.. Im here if u need anything.. and yes ma'am I had to wait.. what they want to make sure is that ur hcg levels go down and everything.. And an ultra sound is normal its to make sure that ur body has tooken its course and left nothing behind.. and that u didnt need a dnc.... Im so sorry.. but thank u for keepin gus updated and take some time to urself.. Go get a pedi or manicure (helps) if u have anymore ?'s or need someone to talk whose been thru it im here anytime u need it.. Im sorry hun!!

Quoting Ms.Meg[KingBoobers]Mama:“ hi ladies sorry i havnt been on to update yall, im still trying to get over the shock of everything, ... [snip!] ... i start birth control again (thankfully its not yaz this time) did anyone else have to wait a few weeks to start BC again?”

Oh wow. I am so sorry to hear that. Are you holding up okay?

Quoting Sgt. Cruz's Preggo Wifey:“ Im so sorry hunny.. Im here if u need anything.. and yes ma'am I had to wait.. what they want to make ... [snip!] ... or manicure (helps) if u have anymore ?'s or need someone to talk whose been thru it im here anytime u need it.. Im sorry hun!!”

oh ya, i guess i understand on why i have to wait on BC, i dont plan on
having sex any time soon, doctor told me to wait awhile anyway.
and thank you, im sure i will have questions.
i dont know how you can deal with having 5 angel babies!
i can barely deal with one..
and i think i may get out and do something tomorrow.. maybe a movie
i havnt had the chance to go in a long time.

Quoting missespeterson:“ Oh wow. I am so sorry to hear that. Are you holding up okay?”

im doing ok, i dont think it has completely hit me yet.
i kinda feel like im in a haze.
its a big shock. but im sure i will be ok soon.
it helps to have friends and my fiance to help me out

Quoting Ms.Meg[KingBoobers]Mama:“ im doing ok, i dont think it has completely hit me yet. i kinda feel like im in a haze. its a big shock. but im sure i will be ok soon. it helps to have friends and my fiance to help me out”

That's so great you have a good support system there to help you through this. I'm very glad you're not trying to deal with it alone. It's such a big shock, I'm so sorry for your loss. I've never been through what you went through, but I'm always here if you need a shoulder to cry on or anyone to talk to!

Quoting missespeterson:“ That's so great you have a good support system there to help you through this. I'm very glad you're ... [snip!] ... loss. I've never been through what you went through, but I'm always here if you need a shoulder to cry on or anyone to talk to!”

ya im glad i have a good support group. at first i just wanted to be alone
but i needed someone to talk toso im glad i can be open about it now.
and thank you
i never imagined this happening to me, and now that it has..
im not really sure how to deal with it..

ya Go get a pedi or do something for urself.. ANd ya Thats how I was to I just wanted to be alone.. but Hun best advice is try and be around people and try and not let urself get in a deprerssion.. I got myself in such a bad depression that I wouldnt get out of.. but deff do something for urself.. do something different.. or maybe just try and do a date night or something... and ya whenever u have a ? or anything Im glad to help ya

Quoting Sgt. Cruz's Preggo Wifey:“ ya Go get a pedi or do something for urself.. ANd ya Thats how I was to I just wanted to be alone.. but ... [snip!] ... different.. or maybe just try and do a date night or something... and ya whenever u have a ? or anything Im glad to help ya”

keeping myself busy is helping a lot, and talking to people is
helping too!thank you for your help!

Quoting Ms.Meg[KingBoobers]Mama:“ keeping myself busy is helping a lot, and talking to people is helping too!thank you for your help!”

ur welcome hun...