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you should tell him too, it's not like you made that baby all by youself. i mean i know it must be hard for him to believe that you're pregnant, but he cant blame it all on you.

Sounds like you are both completely worried over yourselves and not worrying about your child. You are both old enough to be mature about this tell him to grow up!

Im so sorry .......but when he was having unprotected sex he was not complaining.

what a dick.

He needs to grow a pair of balls. Maybe just give him time.

Quoting Giselle*:“ Im so sorry .......but when he was having unprotected sex he was not complaining.”

we have never once not once had un protected sex thats why i was in shock when i found out..

I'd drop kick his ass......then rip off his genitals...

Guys handle things differently. Yes, hes acting like an ass now, but just wait until he sets his sights on your lo for the first time. I bet he'll man up right then. He wont have to stop going to school just because he has a kid. He can do that and work. It will take effort on both your parts!   Congrats on the baby!

Quoting Cadens Mommy:“ Sounds like you are both completely worried over yourselves and not worrying about your child. You are both old enough to be mature about this tell him to grow up!”

im worried of my child thats why i am so mad at him..!!!!

Quoting MonsterBoobs:“ Guys handle things differently. Yes, hes acting like an ass now, but just wait until he sets his sights ... [snip!] ... to school just because he has a kid. He can do that and work. It will take effort on both your parts!   Congrats on the baby!”

thanks. i know thats how i think he will be, but he acts like his life is over..and its pathetic..im like why would you even say these such stupid things.. 

Quoting Tavie:“ I'd drop kick his ass......then rip off his genitals...”

and then pour a milkshake on his ass bwahahah k that's the only comment about that but I had to.

Give him time. You just found out. You haven't even told anyone yet. he's in shock. anytime a man gets a surprise like that he's gonna be in shock. You have to let him deal first. Bring him to your doctor's appointments, let him see how real it is, give him time to adjust. Hopefully he'll come around, and if he doesn't oh fcking well. File for child support and hope he'll still be a good father.

Quoting &hearts Klove &hearts:“ im worried of my child thats why i am so mad at him..!!!!”

sorry misread some stuff...I'm tired lol. I'd be severly pissed off at him, but hopefully he'll pull his head out of his ass! A baby does not "end your life" as he said. I honestly feel more meaning and like I actually have a purpose here since I had my son. Just sit him down and tell him you all need to talk about it because putting it off and stressing about it isn't helping anything!

Quoting ♥ Klove ♥:“ thanks. i know thats how i think he will be, but he acts like his life is over..and its pathetic..im like why would you even say these such stupid things..”

He is saying them because he doesn't know what else to say. He's still in shock from the whole deal. You weren't having sex unprotected, so he didn't expect you to get pregnant. Now you are, and he just found out and you're wanting to suddenly jump into family mode and talk about baby stuff, and HE is not ready yet. You can't be mad at him for that. He has to have time to adjust sweetie. You can't just expect him to be excited about something he didn't want overnight.