DO NOT BE A VICTIM TO PEER PRESSURE!

So i met my boyfriend in september 08; started going out in october...
sex in november & found out i was pregnant in March of 09
Sounds a little "fast moving" but stuff happens [NO RUDE COMMENTS]
anyway i was scared to tell my family-- but when they found out my mom was the only one telling me "You can fix your mistakes", "How could you be so stupid?" And just telling me a whole bunch of bullsh*t...
I kept reassuring her that I would do what i have to do to fit a baby into my life but yet for a few months she'd kept trying to convince me to "fix my mistake"
I am happy that i am now about to be 36 weeks pregnant & even though everything has not been perfect, the fact that i am 16 and my boyfriend & I had only known each other for 5 months hasnt changed our feelings about our daughter-- we are in this together & I am doing what i have to do because i put mind over matter & resisted against the peer pressure. I hope I have saved a life because some girls/women just get an abortion because the baby "wasnt planned". . . Like the bad things in life, not all good things are planned either & my daughter is my blessing. My heart goes out to the lost souls of the beautiful babies & potential mothers. Please do not fall victim to peer pressure & think long & hard before you "erase your mistake"

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I'm glad you made the choice that was right for you.....but the right choice for you is not necessarily going to be the right choice for someone else. Women need to decide what is best for them and their situation.

amen, i admire your strength. i wish more girls your age thought the way you do after getting themselves into this situation.you are going to be a great mother, dont worry, just give it your all...it will be tiring and hard at times, but your baby will be your heart and you wont know any other way or know how you ever lived without her. congrats and good luck!

It wouldn't be peer pressure if it was your Mom...just sayin'. Oh, and congratulations on your little girl

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Nice second post?

Glad you made the right choice for you and people shouldn't give into peer pressure and just choose whats best for themselves instead, whether its abortion, adoption or keeping the baby.

hellz yes us 16 year olds need to stick together *chants* 16 year old powah !!!!!!!!!! we may be young but we can always do it!! 

Thank you SO much
for sharing this...oh so helpful information that i would just NEVER have been able to live without reading! You have literally affected my life so deeply  

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glad you made the right decision for you, good luck

I appreciate your intentions here, and I agree that people should not abort due to pressure from others.

However, most women don't abort for that reason. It's a very difficult, personal decision they make, that they feel is best for themselves.

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BAHAHAHA, I love you.