re: Regret. (Check Forum Topic Before Reading).

Quoting Mari. ❤:“ Yeah I know, I wouldn't either. Is the abortion you had your 1 angel baby? I didn't know people put that as it unless it was a miscarriage or something.”

yeah it is. most people don't put that for abortion bescause theychose tohave the abortion or whatever. [or i think so anyways] but it wasn't my choice and i really wanted that baby, so to me it was my child, nota bundle of cells or whatever bullshit some people call it... so yeah that's him.

I had an abortion in May. I have a hard time with it sometimes, but I believe that it was the right thing to do. I don't think I could handle another child by this man.

Quoting Happy Phantom:“ I had an abortion in May. I have a hard time with it sometimes, but I believe that it was the right thing to do. I don't think I could handle another child by this man.”

yeah, i know that mine was the best thing i could've done. it's just not a good time, and i couldn't have given it everything it deserves. but it still hurts to think about it.

My mom had an abortion at age 13 under the worst possible circumstances. I was born when she was 20, and she went on to have my sister and brother. She never got over having the abortion. There were days I would go in her room and she was just....crying. This was years later.

Quoting Mari. ❤:“ I regret having an abortion. I am so mad at myself for doing it. Does anyone feel like this after doing ... [snip!] ... I have never been on this pill before. Please no one ask me why I just want "abortion survivors" to give me their perspective.”

IMO I AM GLAD you regret it .. its not the part of pain i want you to feel but to be self aware of your actions. My mom, aunt, grandma have had abortions... my aunt regretted it because of difficulties ttc. my mom did as well but not my grandma.. then again she is heartless. ANYWAYS lol... I hope you dont get pregnant again anytime soon. TOO many pregnancies so close damages your body. I know this cause i been preggo back to back.
I have never had an abortion nor will i ever. I know most of the women here who has had an abortion pretty much by force then choice and my heart goes out to them. Just take it one day at a time ... and take advantage on doing something with your life that if you do end up preggo you can handle it and not have another abortion...HUGS..

Quoting marisonyi:“ IMO I AM GLAD you regret it .. its not the part of pain i want you to feel but to be self aware of your ... [snip!] ... on doing something with your life that if you do end up preggo you can handle it and not have another abortion...HUGS..”

 

I had an abortion in December of 08. I very very much regret it, I wish I never did it, although it was not my choice. I'm 10 weeks and 4 days pregnant right now, and will not abort it. That thought never crossed my mind, and I told my Aunt that there was nothing she could do to stop me from keeping this baby.

I was always against it, and still am. It's the worst thing to do, and i will never do it again.

I did regret my abortion, but now I know it was the right thing to do in my situation. I did get pregnant basically right after my abortion and there was no way in hell I could do it again.

Honey, Im sorry that you felt that this was the best decision. I have never had one, but I have had many friends who have. I am a believer that every child who is born should be a wanted child, so I support abortion, though I have never done it. Also, you had to make the best choice for YOU!I hope that your body and mind heals and you are able to have children when the time is right!

Quoting Mari. ❤:“ I regret having an abortion. I am so mad at myself for doing it. Does anyone feel like this after doing ... [snip!] ... I have never been on this pill before. Please no one ask me why I just want "abortion survivors" to give me their perspective.”

i understand you and it is natural to feel bad _ its a natural reaction

I had one. And I can honestly say I would NEVER EVER EVER do it again. I had mine 4 months ago, and I still think about it everyday. And yes I regret it everyday.

I had an abortion july 3rd of this year me and my fiance' were separated and I accidently got pregnant by this complete loser I was hanging around he hit me once and came quite close to raping one day close enough to where I had to scream to get him off me. I immediantly broke it off with him and me and my fiance' got back together it was not a problem that I was pregnant but the thought of carrying that guys kid in me after everything disgusted me more than anything in the world especially knowing that i would have to see him the rest of my life. So i got an abortion at 9 weeks pregnant I do not regret my decision AT ALL!!! But I did decide to have a baby a month after the abortion i do not know if it was that fact that I was a bit sad after terminating my pregnancy or just because I am ready to be a mother at this point in my life But I am currently pregnant and could not be happier and would NEVER think of terminating this pregnancy. But to answer your question no i do not in the least bit regret my abortion it was my choice and i made it for myself and what was best for me. And if another situation was to arise where I felt I was not able to or couldn't take care of my baby I would most deffiantly do it again no questions asked!!! Every situation is different just like every pregnancy is different if both of your pregnancys weren't right for you at this time or you weren't mentally able to deal with them then you made the right choice for you and in a decision like that the ONLY person who matters is YOU!!!!

ive never had an abortion, but i can understand how you feel, and im sorry you feel that way.

hopefully youll find peace with it. its a hard decision to make.