Babystar

I had a missed miscarriage last year. I found out at 18w1d that my little baby star had passed away at around 13 weeks. I am pregnant again, and people seem to be under the impression that i can now move on and forget about the past and look to the future. It is not as easy as that, and although i am pregnant again i still think about my loss everyday. Here is a poem i wrote after the loss of my precious baby, i would like to share this, as a rememberence to the little angel that was just too precious for life on earth with me.

mummys little star

A little life
Inside of me
You couldnt hold on
I had to set you free
Now you are free
To fly so high
Mummys little star
Twinkling in the sky

Love you baby star, and always will xxxx

Aww! That's so sweet!

I hate that people think you can just "get over it"... You NEVER get over it, you just stop crying all the time!

Congratulations!!! This will be one special baby, hand picked by your first!!

- Jess

I read a quote online that made this so nice and clear for me.. "I'll never get over the loss of my son, I will just learn to live with a broken heart"

& Congratulations on the pregnancy too.. I'm thinking of my pregnancy the way Jess told you to think -- Chase hand picked this new baby for me and his Daddy to have with us..

i know how you feel. people think the pain goes away when it doesnt. i had my miscarraige when i was 15, my baby was killed when i got raped and had a baseball bat pushed into my stomach. my bf also experienced a misscarraigr in a previous relationship. when i got pregnant and we found out we were having a little girl we decided to name her after her two angel sisters. her name is Amariyanna after my loss and My'Angel after his loss. we didnt know if it would help or hurt until she was born two weeks ago, it helps to confort me when i look at my daughter to see that a part of them is in her. by the way congrats on the pregnancy.