do you feel jealous?

i hate feeling this way but i'm SO jealous of pregnant women.

my best friend is currently pregnant and her husband is there for her, and treats her like a princess. i love them both and i hate feeling so... resentful toward them. i just can't help wishing i had made better decisions and that my bf would've been there for me like he is for her...

most days i just wish i could go back and not make that mistake. :[ but what's done is done i guess.

does anyone else feel jealous like i do? please share.

-no rude comments, please.-

Quoting LynseyLoo:“ i hate feeling this way but i'm SO jealous of pregnant women. my best friend is currently pregnant ... [snip!] ... :[ but what's done is done i guess. does anyone else feel jealous like i do? please share. -no rude comments, please.-”

I'm sorry you feel that way mama.

Quoting LynseyLoo:“ i hate feeling this way but i'm SO jealous of pregnant women. my best friend is currently pregnant ... [snip!] ... :[ but what's done is done i guess. does anyone else feel jealous like i do? please share. -no rude comments, please.-”

i know how you feel. i wish my ex wouldn't have been such a douche when i was pregnant and i wish my son didn't have a loser dad that was in jail. i get jealous when i see a father actually holding their son and smiling while doing so.

Quoting .Tracey.:“ i know how you feel. i wish my ex wouldn't have been such a douche when i was pregnant and i wish my ... [snip!] ... have a loser dad that was in jail. i get jealous when i see a father actually holding their son and smiling while doing so.”

aww i'm sorry.

i get what u mean. jay fucked with my head about it, cause u know, i was very emotional. and he knew he could make me do what he wanted. ugh. i just wish i didn't listen to him.

You are 15 years old. Know that you have so much potential and great things in store for you.
Finish school, travel, meet thousands of new people, see things you never thought you would see.
Live a life before giving one.
If anything they could be jealous of you for having no strings attached and being able to go out and do things that they obviously can't do now.  

Quoting Ninja Shahinda {30+}:“ You are 15 years old. Know that you have so much potential and great things in store for you. Finish ... [snip!] ... be jealous of you for having no strings attached and being able to go out and do things that they obviously can't do now.  ”

i know you're right. and i mean it's not like i'm going out and actually trying to get pregnant again. idk why, but i just can't seem to begin to think like that.

Quoting Ninja Shahinda {30+}:“ You are 15 years old. Know that you have so much potential and great things in store for you. Finish ... [snip!] ... be jealous of you for having no strings attached and being able to go out and do things that they obviously can't do now.  ”

 

Quoting LynseyLoo:“ i know you're right. and i mean it's not like i'm going out and actually trying to get pregnant again. idk why, but i just can't seem to begin to think like that.”

Honestly, really truly honestly, I envy you. Not for what happened to you, I'm sorry for that, but because you have so many choices, good life altering choices that you get to make.
There are so many things that you can and will do. Especially in today's world! Don't tie yourself down thinking of the could've and would've(s) think instead of the future and all the insane possibilities!!! You are still at that point in life where there is so much to look forward too and your life's course is so open to possibility!

Before I got preg I was so jealous of all my friends having kids.
When I was with my ex and his 14 year old sister had a baby I bawled so much. I wanted that so bad, but someone who didn't even want it had it happen.
I think I felt that way because I was told I may never be able to have children, so I didn't want to "waste time" not trying for one.
I understand 100%, but I tell you from experiance: Wait.
Wait until you're financially stable. Wait until you're married, or in a committed relationship.
Do what YOU want in life. Go have fun on a whim. Go to the movies without having to worry about baby sitters.

This little guy was a planned pregnancy, but now I'm wishing we would have waited.
I realize now that my dreams of living in San Fransisco are more than likely gone. I won't be able to go to school full time like I wanted. I won't be able to take random road trips.

wow... see... i feel bad that I am pregnant... there are 3 friends of mine and myself that all ended up pregnant at the same time. one was told she couldnt get pregnant, one tried for 4 months, i was off b/c for over a year and the other was an oops after her last child... we were all like... 2 weeks apart going down a line... I got a call one day, one girl was having a m/c. Two days later, another went to her doc appt and they couldnt find a heartbeat. they gave her a week to m/c on her own before she was given meds for a D&C. the third called me bawling a few days later... she was cramping, in a ton of pain and passing blood clots. And I'm the only one left pregnant... a part of me feels like crap that they lost their babies and I still have mine... but I'm more concerned that they all resent me for still being pregnant when they couldnt be...

I'm really sorry that you feel that way... honestly i am (not sarcastically) I hope that something works out for you though... jealously is never good....

Quoting Ishy{mommy to Milo}:“ Before I got preg I was so jealous of all my friends having kids. When I was with my ex and his 14 year ... [snip!] ... are more than likely gone. I won't be able to go to school full time like I wanted. I won't be able to take random road trips.”

i;m planning on waiting, but it still hurts knowing what i gave up..

Quoting LynseyLoo:“ i;m planning on waiting, but it still hurts knowing what i gave up..”

Oh, I know  
My angel baby was a miscarriage, but I wasn't able to feed myself and was on a drug known to cause miscarriages and birth defects. I didn't do anything because I was scared (I had just found out the guy I was with was cheating on me).
I still blame myself, though I know everything happens for a reason, and it still hurts.
But time heals all sorrow.

Quoting LynseyLoo:“ i hate feeling this way but i'm SO jealous of pregnant women. my best friend is currently pregnant ... [snip!] ... :[ but what's done is done i guess. does anyone else feel jealous like i do? please share. -no rude comments, please.-”

i feel that way sometimes, just not for the same reasons.

i already have a 2 year old son. his father and i arent together anymore, but ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and we live together.

im ready for another child, and hes not ready yet and i get jealous because i know alot of people who are married or in relationships and their husbands or SOs are so EXCITED about having another baby.

i have one friend who is pregnant with her 3rd, and i have to admit i feel jealous.

cant really help it. wish my SO was like that lol

Quoting Joeys Momma!:“ i feel that way sometimes, just not for the same reasons. i already have a 2 year old son. his father ... [snip!] ... friend who is pregnant with her 3rd, and i have to admit i feel jealous. cant really help it. wish my SO was like that lol”

yeah i just wish jay would've gotten exctied like i did about the lil one...