re: do you feel jealous?

yeaa but even if he did get excited, it doesnt always last.

my ex (sons father) was sooo excited until he realized hed actually have to become a responsible person.

he was a freakin loser.

Quoting Joeys Momma!:“ yeaa but even if he did get excited, it doesnt always last. my ex (sons father) was sooo excited until he realized hed actually have to become a responsible person. he was a freakin loser.”

yeah and that probably would've happened. but it's still all the what if's. like aybe it wouldn't have turned out like that..

Quoting LynseyLoo:“ yeah and that probably would've happened. but it's still all the what if's. like aybe it wouldn't have turned out like that..”

rightt.

thats why i could never bring myself to have an abortion. im not talking badly about people who do, but i could just never do it.

when my mom was 15 she got pregnant with twins, was FORCED to have an abortion (literally dragged there), and shes still traumatized by it,.

the worst part is they didnt know it was twins, somehow only got 1 out, and she ended up losing the 2nd one at home and had so much bleeding she had to go to the hospital. ill never forget that i wouldve had 2 older siblings.

alot of people dont realize that if doesnt affect just you, but your future children too. its just sad to think of all the "what ifs" and everything

Quoting Joeys Momma!:“ rightt. thats why i could never bring myself to have an abortion. im not talking badly about people ... [snip!] ... that if doesnt affect just you, but your future children too. its just sad to think of all the "what ifs" and everything”

i read all the stories on here about the women that regret having an abortion, but i figured they were just over reacting. but since i actually went through with it, i understand all the horror stories about it. it really is as bad as most people say. if i ever get pregnant again i won't even consider abortion. it's really changed my way of thinking.

I do know, because I want another baby but I'm not in the position to have one.

5 years ago when I aborted? Hell no.

Quoting LynseyLoo:“ i hate feeling this way but i'm SO jealous of pregnant women. my best friend is currently pregnant ... [snip!] ... :[ but what's done is done i guess. does anyone else feel jealous like i do? please share. -no rude comments, please.-”

I'm sorry yer feeling so down. *hugs*

Quoting FUCK YOU:“ I'm sorry yer feeling so down. *hugs*”

aww thank youu. :]

I don't feel jealous.
If I thought I would feel jealous, I wouldn't have gone through with the procedure. You have plenty of time for babies, so don't sweat it, you're young so enjoy yourself now while your responsibilities are limited!

Quoting Ninja Shahinda {30+}:“ You are 15 years old. Know that you have so much potential and great things in store for you. Finish ... [snip!] ... be jealous of you for having no strings attached and being able to go out and do things that they obviously can't do now.  ”

i agree 100% with what you just said!! i feel that way!

I'm sorry that you are going through this. I wouldn't feel bad about how you feel about your friend I think just recognize that it's part of the grieving process. It's hard not to let your mind wander to the what ifs but everyone is right, you are so young and have so much you can do with your life.

The next person you choose to be with will hopefully be a better man. There is no other decision in your life as important as choosing your future spouse. BE PICKY!!!

when my little sister was 15 she got pregnant with a guy that she had been with for almost a year & the same guy she lost her v card to.she wanted to keep it but he didnt. we found out that they had actually been "trying" to have a baby.guess he decided that he didnt want the baby anymore once reality struck in. my mom wanted her to kepp it so bad and tried to force her but my sister was so in love with the guy that she went & got an abortion.i cried so hard.they later broke up.the abortion ruined there relationship& made my sister kind of "mental".she tried commititting suicide& would cutt herself.than she resorted to something that devastated us all. she would sleep with guys "trying" to get pregnant but it just didnt work.it was the saddest thing i had ever seen.when i found out i was pregnant i felt of all things guilty.i felt like i had stollen something from my sister.i knew she was jealouS&hurt but now she is better. she is excited for my baby. she is in a serious relationship&is not sleeping around anymorei love my little sisterwith all my heart. she still hasnt been able to get pregnant. she believes god is punishing her but i try to convince her otherwise.

*so i think in a huge wayy that most girls that get an abortion with it not really being there choice will feel that "jealous" feeling. stay strong* <3ash

Quoting XoConners MomXo:“ when my little sister was 15 she got pregnant with a guy that she had been with for almost a year & ... [snip!] ... most girls that get an abortion with it not really being there choice will feel that "jealous" feeling. stay strong* <3ash”

thanks:]

Quoting Triciaranae:“ I'm sorry that you are going through this. I wouldn't feel bad about how you feel about your friend I ... [snip!] ... hopefully be a better man. There is no other decision in your life as important as choosing your future spouse. BE PICKY!!!”

lol. i'll make sure to do that.

UMMM...I really have no advice...besides that I hope you feel better....jealousy is not a good character to hold. It kind of sucks that you didn't have someone to support you...I do know that feeling. My boyfriend that I live with now wasn't really sure about keeping the baby.....so it made me unsure....I know the feeling of wanting something and then having your mind made up so the person won't be upset or decide to leave. However once we told my mom (she kind of figured it on her own) then we were both so excited to keep the baby. Now my [entire] family including his knows and they all are extremely supportive and want us to get married (although Im not ready for that). My boyfriend has not missed one doc. appointment, he talks to the baby in spanish when it hurts me, and helps me so much throughout the day. I dont think I could live without him not supporting me. So in a way I could see how you feel this way because there are many women that dont have support, and here it is my boyfriend rubs my belly every morning and tells me how much he lovves the both of us. But I agree with other women...maybe the guy you were with was not right for you and that God will place someone in your life that will appreciate the life you are bringing.