re: i just recently got an abortion & i really need some advice

Quoting TIP_BabyAD:“ sooo...u sayin u can raise a kid off lyke 200 dollars...get real....and u dont need to have kids to no ... [snip!] ... and i take care of other ppls kidz... so...if u dont lyke what i say stop readin what i post easy huh?..yea, i think so. ”

its obvious you went to clown school.

and baby sitting is NOTHING like being a parent.
 

Quoting TIP_BabyAD:“ sooo...u sayin u can raise a kid off lyke 200 dollars...get real....and u dont need to have kids to no ... [snip!] ... and i take care of other ppls kidz... so...if u dont lyke what i say stop readin what i post easy huh?..yea, i think so. ”

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fuck it I'll retype the whole thing for you, since you seem to be an illiterate fuck.

So, are you saying that you can raise a kid off $200? Get real! And you don't need to have kids to know to raise them. I majored in Early Childhood and I take care of other people's children.\

So if you don't like what I say, stop reading what I post. Easy, huh? Yeah, I think so.*******************

Apparently you majored in FAIL of the English language.

Quoting TIP_BabyAD:“ sooo...u sayin u can raise a kid off lyke 200 dollars...get real....and u dont need to have kids to no ... [snip!] ... and i take care of other ppls kidz... so...if u dont lyke what i say stop readin what i post easy huh?..yea, i think so. ”

You majored in early childhood what? Education? Development? What?

If you write half as badly as you type, I'd never let you within 100 feet of my child, so I sincerely doubt you take care of any children.

Quoting Boob Tick's Mom ebfb.:“ So* are you* saying* you* like* you* don't* fuck it I'll retype the whole thing for you, since you seem ... [snip!] ... reading what I post. Easy, huh? Yeah, I think so.******************* Apparently you majored in FAIL of the English language.”

bwahahaaa

I'm very very pro life. I read this and it actually made me cry and feel so sad for you. I couldn't imagine how trapped you must have felt. The only way you'll ever be able to forgive yourself and feel like you can breath again is to talk to someone. Go to therapy. Where I live there are churches that offer free counseling. I would highly recommend you do that. I'd also hope to GOD that you dump that loser BF of yours. He's a total douche!! I pray that you'll find peace and will go on to live a happy life and love the children you will have with a HUSBAND.

Quoting dptywife:“ I'm very very pro life. I read this and it actually made me cry and feel so sad for you. I couldn't imagine ... [snip!] ... douche!! I pray that you'll find peace and will go on to live a happy life and love the children you will have with a HUSBAND.”

 

Your mom cant force you to do anything like that. I know when i was planning on getting one I was the one who wanted one and then mom took me to the clinic. There were protesters out there. My mom was the one who payed for it. I was 13 weeks. That was the last week you could get one. I got an ultrasound and everything. I talked to the consoler and i told her i wanted it. Then they sit up the date so i could come in.Then i came out and showed my mom the ultrasound. My mom was going to let me get one but whne she say that ultrasound she could not do it. She was like that baby had eyes,ears,a nose, everything. there is no way your om could make you have becuase it was up to you when you talked to that consolor and tell her i dont want it. The consolor should have told you nobody can force you get an abortion.Even if she payed for it you did not have to get one. I hope you learn from this and dont let nobody force you to do anything like that. I hope you will feel better

Quoting Nequa:“ PLEASE READ THE WHOLE THING I REALLY NEED ADVICE ! Ok so i found out i was pregnent when i was about ... [snip!] ... dnt want to get out of bed ! someone plz help may i really need advice, do you think it would be wrong if i got pregnant again?”

Getting pregnant won't make things better, you did what was needed for yourself.
Your still so young, as am I, and you have your life in front of you..
This empty feeling you have is completly normal, and its going to take some time for it to mellow out, you will never forget, but this experience will only make you stronger. Just do yourself the favor, and wait until you have your life set, so you can raise another life. Babies arent no joke.
Be strong and just focus on what you can do now, example.. finishing school, high school events, work., etc...
This is allup toyou now..

First off I'm so sorry you had to be in that situation... And as cliche as it sounds and you probably wont believe it but I can tell you it does get better,..somewhat. When I was 18 I got pregnant. Now my mom didn't force me to have an aortion seeing as i never told her til after the fact but my boyfriend at the time was another story. After I told him, we spent literally the next week til my doctors appt holed up in our room with me bawling my eyes out while he kept insisting i need to have an abortion. I kept telling him no, i could't do that but he kept saying we couldn't give the baby the life it deserved and all this other..I finally gave in to him. I didnt want the abortion by any means but I was just....I gave up. He wasn't budging and I didn't want to lose him and so I did what I still to this day regret and had the abortion. For a long time after that, I was depressed,I couldn't see a baby or pregnant woman( even better, his sister who lived with us, got knocked up a month after i had the abortion) without wanting to bawl my eyes out, i was always wondering what if.. I was miserable. But now, while I can't say I'm completely over it,.. it does get alot better. It still makes me sad and i think of my baby up in heaven quite a bit, but it doesnt run my life anymore. So honestly, it will get better. I wouldn't suggest getting pregnant though. I understand where your coming from, for awhile afterwards I tried(w/o my bfs knowledge)but *thankfully* it never worked..like everyone else keeps saying, you'll just be in the sam situation you were just in. Wait until your outta the house,out from under your mom's thumb and honey while i hate to say it I would lose the guy too. If a guys gonna be like that with you he's not someone you want to father your child

I'm so sorry that you went through that. Having a child should be your decision, not your mothers or based on anyone else's opinion. Take your time to grieve and don't be too hard on yourself. Make sure that in the future you are able to make your own decisions and stick by them. Best of luck and love.

honestly, i can't give advice, because i need some myself. i too am in your exact position, although my parents don't believe in abortion. i lost my mom when i was 15 and my father is way older than you'd think. my unborn baby's father is a low life, who won't work, has been to jail, and recently left me before we found out. he won't support me, won't talk to me, and won't listen to anything i have to say. he says in order for me to have any chance with him, i need to abort our unborn child. i too don't know what to do, but i know it's not his choice, it's only mine.

I truly don't mean to sound too blunt or rude, but here's the deal.. my boyfriend of 3 years and I just found out a month ago we are expecting a compltely unplanned baby. My boyfriend from day 1 of meeting him pretty much, has made it clear he has no desire for children whatsoever, etc. Needless to say, I was nervous beyond belief when I found out I was pregnant (because I thought he would want to leave and have no part with this baby deal).... well, he ended up accepting the circumstances and told me the descision is up to me and if I decided to keep the baby (which I without a doubt did) he would support me no matter what. And, he has. He has been here through my moodiness, morning sickness, constant exhaustion, etc. All I am saying is if you can't learn anything else from this whole situation, you need to learn that you are probably better off without that boyfriend. That's pretty sad that he threatened your relationship if you decided to keep the baby. It shows he has no respect for you and that just doesn't seem like real love to me. Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend and I's relationship is far from perfect but at least he decided to man up when I got pregnant, ya know? It pisses me off to hear about your boyfriends reaction. My mom also wanted me to get an abortion because I am only 20 and haven't finished college yet. But a mom shouldn't force you to do that, its YOUR BODY and YOUR BABY. That's NOBODYS decision but your own!