sex drive MIA

has anyone seen my sex drive around?   Just wondering if anyone else out there had zero interest in sex after baby. I'm 14 weeks PP and sadly, I really have no interest. What did you do to get through it? My hubby has been really really patient, but it is starting to wear on him alot.. just wondering if I'm alone in this and what I might do to locate my sex drive... it's totally MIA

DId you have a girl or boy? I never had a problem with my sons. My daughter turned 12 months the 17th and I still have none, it happened to my sister to.

I feel ya! Mine vanished while I was on the Nuvaring! I quickly switched back to the good ole trusty pill! LOL

ill help you look, cuz ive lost mine too..
maybe we can find it in the same place..

its quite annoying... 

I had a little boy and hes 7 mo and I still cant find mine either..   seems like I had more of a drive when I was 30 weeks pregnant than I do now

Quoting ☆indiegurl☆:“ DId you have a girl or boy? I never had a problem with my sons. My daughter turned 12 months the 17th and I still have none, it happened to my sister to.”

My hormones were in overdrive with my son...I wanted sex all the time...but, when I was pregnant with the girls...meh!

I think mine is starting to come back. As for your husband tell him to go jerk it. Thats what i tell mine and hes happy afterwards. I think its the only thing keeping him sane until mine comes back

Quoting ☆indiegurl☆:“ DId you have a girl or boy? I never had a problem with my sons. My daughter turned 12 months the 17th and I still have none, it happened to my sister to.”

we had a girl lol... o.0

Quoting melaniecoconut:“ ill help you look, cuz ive lost mine too.. maybe we can find it in the same place.. its quite annoying... ”

lol.. they're prolly hiding in a cave laughing at us... sick jerks they are!

Quoting ~*Kristine*~:“ I had a little boy and hes 7 mo and I still cant find mine either..   seems like I had more of a drive when I was 30 weeks pregnant than I do now”

o.0 ahh... 7 months? not cool... i dunno if I'll still be married if mine stays away that long... sheesh. I'm starting to feel like I'm broken  

P.S. I had WAAAY more of a drive when I was preggo.. rough part was I was in the hospital from 29 weeks on... so it's been a really really long time for us.

Quoting .chele.:“ My hormones were in overdrive with my son...I wanted sex all the time...but, when I was pregnant with the girls...meh!”

really? that's interesting.. i've never heard that makes a difference, but you're not the first to say it on here... I'll ahve to look into that option lol

Quoting Sahsha:“ I think mine is starting to come back. As for your husband tell him to go jerk it. Thats what i tell mine and hes happy afterwards. I think its the only thing keeping him sane until mine comes back”

we kinda have a "not by yourself" rule.. hard to explain, but it's a mutual agreement that neither of us does anything alone, in that sense

Quoting indig0 & Evah:“ has anyone seen my sex drive around?   Just wondering if anyone else out there had zero interest in ... [snip!] ... to wear on him alot.. just wondering if I'm alone in this and what I might do to locate my sex drive... it's totally MIA”

My daughter is 8 months old and I've had sex 3 times since she was born.. I have no sex drive and I feel horrible for my husband.

I went to the doctor about it..and he said its a symptom/side effect of depression  

Quoting indig0 & Evah:“ has anyone seen my sex drive around?   Just wondering if anyone else out there had zero interest in ... [snip!] ... to wear on him alot.. just wondering if I'm alone in this and what I might do to locate my sex drive... it's totally MIA”

I think it went on vaca with mine..lol

Quoting indig0 & Evah:“ really? that's interesting.. i've never heard that makes a difference, but you're not the first to say it on here... I'll ahve to look into that option lol”

I think it might be pretty accurate. I didnt feel like this with my boys