re: Sooo Confused & Torn...

YAY thats great...

Quoting krazybonita85:“ Heyyy I just wanted to say thank u all sooo much for ur input. I got some positive responses an a few ... [snip!] ... as if they were his own...an they trually luv him too!Im trully blessed. My first doc appt is on wed. Wisk me luck!!!   ”

Congrats on the decision. I know my response may have come across as negative and I didnt mean for it to. However I am so happy for you decision. Good luck and best wishes!!

i agree with many people if you dont think having another baby is the best thing right now maybe try adoption which i know will be hard after carrying your child 9mths and giving it to someone else ot take home but just think about how heartbroken they might be so many people would love to be in your situation and you would be their hero to give them a gift they have been waiting for and wanting for so long your boyfriend might also want to keep this child because he doesnt get to see his others much and it might help him with the pain of not getting to see his kids that however is just my opinion and ultimatley you have to do what you feel is right for you and your situation because not only do you have this new baby to think about but also your other two and yourself.

Quoting ...:::Brittany:::...:“ i agree with many people if you dont think having another baby is the best thing right now maybe try ... [snip!] ... for you and your situation because not only do you have this new baby to think about but also your other two and yourself.”

She already said she was going to keep the baby.

Im expecting baby number 3 and just had my 2nd baby 3 months prior to getting pregnant again and I might not be ready but Im sorry if you can lay down and get pregnant for the 3rd time your able to take care of it and you have a man who is wanting and willing to help you the baby didnt ask to be conceived I think you can make it threw. i have a 5 yr old a 6 month old and one on the way and I just turned 25 on Friday if I can do and other women can do it you can too.

Quoting krazybonita85:“ I feel that i can not have another child soo soon,though i dont really believe in it. I feel that I have no other option besides abortion. Am I wrong for that?”

adoption is always an option.

Quoting krazybonita85:“ Im a 24 mother of a 5yr. old girl and a 2yr old boy. My last relationship didnt work out wit my son's ... [snip!] ... do you all think i should do??? Thisis very tough for me soo pleasetry to be polite and not harsh. *THANKS*   ~Tiff~”

I didn't read all of it, but dowhat you feel is best.

You're not too young for three, though. I had three at the age of 23 :-)

However, if you feel ending the pregnancy will be best, then do it. But, remember, it may put a large strain on your relationship, so having a conversation with the father might be best.

Quoting Jennie T:“ Im expecting baby number 3 and just had my 2nd baby 3 months prior to getting pregnant again and I might ... [snip!] ... a 5 yr old a 6 month old and one on the way and I just turned 25 on Friday if I can do and other women can do it you can too.”

That's not always true. Just because someone is hot, heavy, and horny and ready for sex does not make them ready for a child :-) That's just flat ignorant to say.

ok look, she wants to keep the baby so just let it rest

Everything happens for a reason...And if God didnt think you could handle it then he wouldnt have let it happen. Thats a major decision to make and your boyfriend should have a say in it too...its his baby also!

Good luck and I hope you make the right decision!

I didn't believe in abortions...until I was in the situation where it crossed my mind...and I had one. I feel no regrets from it, and I don't even think about it, just the occasional "what if's".
I didn't read what your decsion was, but I hope whatever one you make is best for you.
Good luck!

Quoting *angeLina*maRie:“ adoption please! the baby didnt choose to b conceived so give the baby a chance at life...”

Your right OPEN adoption though.This unborn child deserves a chance just like her other children got

Quoting krazybonita85:“ Im a 24 mother of a 5yr. old girl and a 2yr old boy. My last relationship didnt work out wit my son's ... [snip!] ... do you all think i should do??? Thisis very tough for me soo pleasetry to be polite and not harsh. *THANKS*   ~Tiff~”

Trust yourself, and you see, your boyfriend has faith in you and you two, be happy about it! Congratulations on the new member of your family!  

Quoting Braeleighs mama:“ adoption is always an option.”

open adoption

Quoting krazybonita85:“ Im a 24 mother of a 5yr. old girl and a 2yr old boy. My last relationship didnt work out wit my son's ... [snip!] ... do you all think i should do??? Thisis very tough for me soo pleasetry to be polite and not harsh. *THANKS*   ~Tiff~”

If he's telling you you can make it and he's working yah u should keep the baby