ugh..

Well, ladies, I'm to the point where I want to just quit.

I know I shouldn't feel this way, but I think it's mainly due to having a 7 month old that I have spent every single day with....I think I need a break!!!

And BD is always saying "I'll watch her, you do whatever you want", then walks out the door. WTF! How is that helping me? Saying you're going to watch her, then leave....

My patience is running on the thin side...and I don't know what to do anymore..

I'm exhausted, he knows that...it's to the point where I get up, and I'm ready to go back to sleep like 2 hrs later.....I'm in a lot of pain, he doesn't believe me. Like, I feel like crying when I try to walk....but whatever...

I just want to leave, for an hour or two, let him deal with her....but I can't bring myself to do that...because of how he does when she's here....

He also will put her in the floor and walk out of the room, or play on his laptop, and when I say "You put her on the floor, you should be paying attention to what she's doing"...but his comeback is "she's your daughter too" I know that....but he should want to watch her....he should want to help me out....let me recuperate...instead of bitching at me and saying that I'm just being a bitch...


ugh...I just don't know what to do anymore...I'm exhausted, & hurting.

do you have any other family you could leave her with?
maybe you could do something while she's sleeping so he doesnt have to watch her and you dont have to worry about it.

Quoting Ms. B:“ Well, ladies, I'm to the point where I want to just quit. I know I shouldn't feel this way, but I think ... [snip!] ... at me and saying that I'm just being a bitch... ugh...I just don't know what to do anymore...I'm exhausted, & hurting.”

I'm sorry mama, hang in there things will get better. I know how you feel my hubbie's deployed which leaves me to take care of our six month pretty much alone. It's hard but we can get thru it.

Quoting Ms. B:“ Well, ladies, I'm to the point where I want to just quit. I know I shouldn't feel this way, but I think ... [snip!] ... at me and saying that I'm just being a bitch... ugh...I just don't know what to do anymore...I'm exhausted, & hurting.”

This is what you do. I have to do it sometimes. Say to your dude, "Her is our daughters food, bottle etc. I am leaving for a few hours. Dont let her get into this or this. Do this and this and she will stop crying.If you have any problems, call."
I have found the morefathers spend with their children alone the more they know what to do and like being withthem.