ok so there are always posts on here about threesomes (if you would do one or not, with a girl/guy, ect) but this is more specific. this thread is specifically for people who would actually have a threesome in the future or have had one in the past.

I'm curious to know if you guys would consider/have had one with a close friend or with a stranger and what you prefer. Not sure if my husband and I will ever actually go through with it and have one but we talk about it sometimes and he says that we would have to find a stranger bc it would be awkward afterward with a friend, but I think it would be more awkward during with a stranger. What do you think?! Don't be shy - share ur experiences either way and tell us why you choose what you did in the poll!!  

ETA: we're talking about adding a female here, not a male

Mine was with two close guy friends, but I dont talk to either of them anymore lol.  

what if the stranger had herpes??? lol a friend maybe but like what if your hubby starts fucking this chick behind your back after? i dont know i wouldnt do it because id be afraid of losing my hubby

Quoting mamaliz [TEAM BLUE]:“ what if the stranger had herpes??? lol a friend maybe but like what if your hubby starts fucking this chick behind your back after? i dont know i wouldnt do it because id be afraid of losing my hubby”

i worry about a stranger for the STD reason, too!

Quoting MommySteffy:“ i worry about a stranger for the STD reason, too!”

maybe its just better in your imagination lol

me and my So had 2 threesomes with the same girl but she is my BFF kinda wierd to hang out but hey the past is the past.

ive had a 3some with a guy mate and some random he knew. lmao.


i wouldnt have one with a close friend, it might make our friendship weird..

oh my threesome story! haha yall will get a good laugh.
I was in highschool. My bestfriend invited me to go to a hotel and get drunk and party with her and her bf. Hmmmmm so i said ok!
Well the drinking and all turned into one big ol threesome!   Well now i am married to that guy! bwahahahahah! Fun story to tell your child when they ask "mommy how did you and daddy meet"!

oh yea and me and the chick are no longer friends....

Well, I've had two, neither was with my s/o.

So, I guess I'd call them strangers. I knew them from the internet, but we weren't close friends.

C.

Quoting God:“ Well, I've had two, neither was with my s/o. So, I guess I'd call them strangers. I knew them from the internet, but we weren't close friends. C.”

how did it work out? was it ok since you "knew" them but didnt have to talk to them afterward if you didnt want to?

Quoting MommySteffy:“ how did it work out? was it ok since you "knew" them but didnt have to talk to them afterward if you didnt want to?”

It worked out ok. I'm fairly casual about sex - I don't mean I have a lot of partners, but when I do decide to sleep with someone I don't have to love them nor does sex make me feel intimate... though of course I do feel intimacy with some people. Pretty much only my husband, these days, heh.

C.

Once me and my bf at the time had a threesome with a stripper I picked up when we were on vacation  . She had the hots for me and I am somewhat bisexual, he ended up getting really jealous.

It was really prob. not a good decision since you never know about people these days. Fortunatly she didn't have herpes lol. But I could never have a threesome while in a relationshipunless the other girl was someone we'd never see again, I know I'd end up getting mad and jealous.

A stranger. A stranger that agrees to being tested beforehand, that's how I'd go about doing it.

A stranger that my SO and I were mutually attracted to and agreed not to see again without the other knowing about it.

This is all hypothetical since I'm single.

When i had a threesome it was with my husband, it was a stranger, but thinking back i wish it was a friend cause the guy became like a stalker. and still to this day calls and wants to hook up. AND the whole std thing i would get checked first! good thing we didnt catch anything  

AND make sure your in stable relationship, it could ruin if you have trust issuse!