i think i would want a friend that way there if we wanted to do it again there is always the option! i would also want the friend so we could maybe not have to worry about some strange girl becoming all psycho on us at least with a friend the chances are a little lower and then there is the whole STD thing.

Quoting MommySteffy:“ ok so there are always posts on here about threesomes (if you would do one or not, with a girl/guy, ect) ... [snip!] ... either way and tell us why you choose what you did in the poll!!   ETA: we're talking about adding a female here, not a male”

I would NEVER do it.

I had a 3 plenty of times with my ex (who later became my best friend.) and it was always her, me and the person I was with at the time. I couldnt do it anyore because it would be to weird, and plus we dont talk anymore (for other reasons.) but its fun as long as 1 of the 3 dont trip out.

Awhile back I had some random group sex with some band. Years later I had sex with a DJ friend and his g/f. They were the kind of friends you only see at partys... so I guess not really friends.

Just after the current s/o and I started dating we had a threesome with his best friend(male). It just started as the s/o and I banging in the band room, then in walks Curt and it all just happened. Booze was a factor. And go figure we no longer talk with Curt.

I've had two threesomes.

One was with 2 men I knew, but they weren't close friends. None of us ever talk anymore.

The second was with an exboyfriend and a friend. They didn't know eachother. None of us talk anymore either.

I couldn't have a threesome while in a relationship. I'm a jealous person.
And... alcohol helps. A lot.

Ok.....Had a 3some in high school with my ex girlfriend and this guy I was sleeping with/dating... (I was a 17, and he was 23...kinda illegal){we will call her Rachel and him Adam}. Anyways it happened she never spoke to me again, and I was kinda confused but I went with it. 2 years later i'm with Adam, just hanging out on his dads little dinky boat, and he had jumped into the lake, and I got nosey, so I went through his phone(he did it to me all the time so i decided why not.) and there is Rachel and him texting back and forth. So to make a long story short, Adam had been messing around with both of us prior to the 3some and afterwards.

So my now SO is bugging me to have one with him and someone else....(this is the kicker)I never told him I had one before....he just so happens to be in the same car club as Rachel's new SO and Adam. Adam told my SO{Ron} all about it....So now he bugs me nonstop.

So ya I don't talk to Rachel anymore. Me and Adam talk from tome to time when we run into each other.

I had one in college with two male strangers. I knew one of them because he was rooming with a friend that I went to high school withand continued to hang out with him and his friends until the year ended. The other one just showed up. We had been out at a club and I waswalking back to my apartment since I had been dropped off at another part of the complex. They were both on their balconies and were being stupid talking to me. I just yelled out my room number and they both showed up. I don't really remember much except for thinking how lucky I was for having both of them show up.