is it wrong?

is it wrong that i don't want my son at my boyfriends parents house without me? my boyfriend got mad because i told him i didn't want my son at his parents. but the reason i don't want him over there is because his parents don't like me and when my son was in the hospital they never cared, when we were still living with them they never asked for the baby or wanted to hold him. my boyfriend has a three year old nephew who likes to pull my sons ears and hair and grab his head hard. i know he still little but his mom or my boyfriends parents say anything. he could hurt my son. what should i do?

I wouldnt let my child go over there.

i am the same way...i don't let him take him without me but maybe suggest you go

Quoting Monkey's Momma[SAHM09]:“ is it wrong that i don't want my son at my boyfriends parents house without me? my boyfriend got mad ... [snip!] ... head hard. i know he still little but his mom or my boyfriends parents say anything. he could hurt my son. what should i do?”

Hey girl.
I wouldnt let him over there let ur BF get mad ur the mother and u have SAY SO OF WHO U LEAVE UR SON WITH.

I wouldn't let him over there without supervision. I don't think you're wrong. you're not trying trying to keep them out of his life just you want to be there to make sure nothing happens to him. If your boyfriend gets mad over that oh well.

i am having this same issue right now!!
my boyfriend has a little sister thats 3 and she is the devil (not joking) this child is the worst and i wouldnt want her around my baby without my supervision.
let your boyfriend be mad, do whats right for your baby.

Just tell him that you don't want Adrian over there and that's final. The way i see it is that Adrian is more your baby than his. Yes it takes 2 people o make a baby but who's the one that has to have a child in them for 9 months? Who has to go through the labor pain? Who has to push him out? WE DO. All he had to do was stick his penis in you.