re: I'm pregnant, not deaf

Quoting momma bird:“ I'm sick of the "Are you sure it's not twins?" question - yes, damn sure! Don't you think I would have ... [snip!] ... such a big baby!" comments, because seriously, he's not, I just have a belly that's a pretty legit size for 8 months pregnant!”

OMG I have a small belly still n I went n met up with friends that I havent seen in awhile n they were like your are huge your going to have a big baby.. I was just like no my belly is normal kinda small n they were like omg its huge n kept touching my belly UGH!!! I was so upset I wen home n cried because I'm not big my belly is not big n my baby isnt big and the doc said most likely she is going to be small so that really upset me.

since I have blowed up in since finding out I knwo what to say when I get the "you're to fat/ should you be eating that/ are they twins" comments


I will simply say "its my last pregnancy and if I am going to pay weight watchers to get me Jenny McCarthy hot I am damn sure I'm goint to get my money's worth"


she did Weight watchers after she had her son, she topped the scales at 200 something.

Quoting Adry [10wks]:“ I guess since I got a lot of crap from my MIL everyone else doesnt really matter with my 1st I had ... *she said men leave their partners if the girl gets fat. *

Are you serious????? I would be like "So what does your husband want with you?" Or something to that effect, cause that is just WAY over the line. In fact, all of that was WAYY over the line. Completely uncalled for. A better catch-all response to her would be "well you're just perfect, aren't you  "

Quoting J.Lake [[Team Pink]]:“ Are you serious????? I would be like "So what does your husband want with you?" Or something to that ... [snip!] ... over the line. Completely uncalled for. A better catch-all response to her would be "well you're just perfect, aren't you  "”

I think she is tramatized from her life

My SO's Dad left her for another woman ( she was preggo with my SO)
Evil SIL's Dad cheated on her and then left her
Her ex husband cheated and left her
Her last ex cheated on her too, ohh wait he was married but didnt bother to tell her that

she's always been kinda chunky not fat but just chunky. Whenever she went out ( when she lived with us) I was the one who would pick out her clothes, do her hair and makeup cause my gawd that woman didnt know how to look her age. She either looked stuck in the 80's or a 20 something hoochie mama  

Quoting TheAirForceWife *catface*:“ people are morons. I had one lady tell me the other day, that since i was so small, if they induced me like they are planning, my baby will die from being malnourished   Moron...”

:O what a douche!

Quoting J.Lake [[Team Pink]]:“ (though i sometimes wish to be) Quick vent: 2 instances. #1. Last Thursday - At my In-law's gathering. ... [snip!] ... gained almost 30lbs, so she has no idea how heavy i feel. Or just, she has no idea how i feel. GRRRRRRR. End of vent. ###”

I know how you feel! Some peoples' comments really irk me.
Every time I go to my in-law's they are always like, "Oh wow, you're even bigger!" or, "Woah, look at that belly..."
I'm just like, "Uh, thanks?"
Or when people ask how much longer I have to go and they respond with, "Oh wow, you've still got a ways to go!" As if I'm overly huge or something...
Pregnant women have feelings too!

Hahaha a lot of the things people say are hilarious... and totally rude! When I was pg with ds, my belly was seriously HUGE. I'm 5'0 and 100 lbs normally and the belly was like a 45lb boulder hanging off my stomach. Needless to say, people could not stop talking about it and harassing me. One of my favorites was, "Oh my god you're HUGE!! How far past your due date are you???" (I was like 30weeks LOL). I also had many strangers argue with me that I was having twins and my u/s must be wrong bc why else would I be so big. hahaha.

Quoting rosamor:“ I know how you feel! Some peoples' comments really irk me. Every time I go to my in-law's they are ... [snip!] ... respond with, "Oh wow, you've still got a ways to go!" As if I'm overly huge or something... Pregnant women have feelings too!”

feelings, and then some! I was just picking up my in-lawsat the airport an hour ago, and my hubby's aunt says as SOON as we walk up the steps to her "oh! Wow! Jordan! You look so HEALTHY. I mean, like, you're gaining weight!" And i told her how much.... 27 lbs or more.. and she said "oh, that's al-----ohh, great" as she caught herself a about to ask if that could possibly be all. JEEZE. And then once my MIL and FIL get off the plane and we're waiting for the baggage, my MIL is standing next to me, reaches over and i felt her hand on my stomach and starts feeling it and i looked down and she goes "oh, i'm just trying to feel if it moves" ....like i wont know when she's moving... bleck... She doesn't kick EVERY SECOND. I think that would be annoying!!

Quoting J.Lake [[Team Pink]]:“ (though i sometimes wish to be) Quick vent: 2 instances. #1. Last Thursday - At my In-law's gathering. ... [snip!] ... gained almost 30lbs, so she has no idea how heavy i feel. Or just, she has no idea how i feel. GRRRRRRR. End of vent. ###”

Hahah don't you hate those old lady types that try to put their two cents in like they know everything. 
30 pounds is actually the preferred amount of weight to be gained in a pregnancy - she must have eaten her ass off in pregnancy! 

I hate those people that tell me I need to stuff my face bc I'm pregnant. 
I've been so dog sick during this pregnancy and people keep telling me that it's not a big deal and I need to get over it, when I had to go to the ER because I couldn't even keep water down.
Some people just don't understand, every pregnancy is different! 

Quoting J.Lake [[Team Pink]]:“ (though i sometimes wish to be) Quick vent: 2 instances. #1. Last Thursday - At my In-law's gathering. ... [snip!] ... gained almost 30lbs, so she has no idea how heavy i feel. Or just, she has no idea how i feel. GRRRRRRR. End of vent. ###”

Damn I'd be so mad about your in-laws..."i named my dog that"?? That's extremely rude to say to someone. I happen to really like the name Ella  

Quoting J.Lake [[Team Pink]]:“ (though i sometimes wish to be) Quick vent: 2 instances. #1. Last Thursday - At my In-law's gathering. ... [snip!] ... gained almost 30lbs, so she has no idea how heavy i feel. Or just, she has no idea how i feel. GRRRRRRR. End of vent. #

I get the same damn comments. "Oh you have a long ways to go" or you get these "You look like you are ready to pop" I mean really can people keep their comments to themselves!

Quoting momma bird:“ I'm sick of the "Are you sure it's not twins?" question - yes, damn sure! Don't you think I would have ... [snip!] ... such a big baby!" comments, because seriously, he's not, I just have a belly that's a pretty legit size for 8 months pregnant!”

I am so sick of that one too... I have been getting it my whole pregnancy. Thats one of the reasons I am glad to be on bed rest... I dont have to hear it every day. I went to my OB appointment last Wed. and this other mom-2-be asked when I was due and I told her December and she then asked about the twins... Same with my bank teller the month before... when I told her it was only one baby she told me I wouldnt make it past this month (which is not something you want to hear when you are high risk for preterm labor)... and then my FIL's sister came over and kept telling me over and over again that I was going to have a huge baby over and over again... at my ultrasound last Wed she was only 2 Lbs 4oz which is like a whole pound smaller than my first daughter was at this point in the pregnancy.   People are dumb