re: deciding on suicide

Quoting shes*almost*one!:“ Im not being a cunt or insensitive. I'm being a realist. Someone said her husband cant handle being ... [snip!] ... being a husband.. I said she cant handle being a wife/mother. Suicide is the easiest, most selfish "way out." Makes me sick.”

sorry, but not everybody handles things the way you do.
some people have feelings that get easily hurt, and are very emotional like myself  

Quoting Ashlee♥:“ What is the money being sent for? & to who? Sorry missed that post?”

the ladies arebeing kind enough to send me some funds towards my phone bill as i sat on the phone with florida police for over half a hour tracking down the OP .

Quoting :.Sara Beara.:.TWW!:“ I will NEVER forget walking into the bathroom and seeing my father with his wrists slit and blood everywhere, never.”

That's the only thing that kept me from doing it: not wanting to be found by someone who loves me.

Quoting shes*almost*one!:“ Im not being a cunt or insensitive. I'm being a realist. Someone said her husband cant handle being ... [snip!] ... being a husband.. I said she cant handle being a wife/mother. Suicide is the easiest, most selfish "way out." Makes me sick.”

It is selfish, cowardly, and the easy way out, there's no question in that.

Quoting Ashlee♥:“ What is the money being sent for? & to who? Sorry missed that post?”

to samarah, for her hugeass phone bill   since she was the one who called 911......
anything over her bill, we're going to get to christie!! (OP)

Quoting :.Sara Beara.:.TWW!:“ I will NEVER forget walking into the bathroom and seeing my father with his wrists slit and blood everywhere, never.”

I'm sorry you had to go through that...

Quoting It's Ashleyyyy!:“ BTW! I know someone's husbandin military prision for cheating so many times. It can get that serious.”

it can. but it can also go the other way where the chain of command does nothing to the military member at all. my last chain of command didnt care and the boys were cheating left and right on their wives.  

Quoting SamarahESS TKD:“ the ladies arebeing kind enough to send me some funds towards my phone bill as i sat on the phone with florida police for over half a hour tracking down the OP .”

Awh. How nice.
I would help if I could.
I hope you get it paid Mama.

Quoting Mimi*I Am Not Sasha*BGFM:“ I've noticed that too, I just choose to ignore her most of the time.”

lol yes. it is just easier to let her keep going on her own. she does a good job of looking like an idiot on her own

Quoting NicksLove:“ it can. but it can also go the other way where the chain of command does nothing to the military member ... [snip!] ... military member at all. my last chain of command didnt care and the boys were cheating left and right on their wives.  ”

Yep. That side happened to ME when I was married.

Quoting shes*almost*one!:“ Im not being a cunt or insensitive. I'm being a realist. Someone said her husband cant handle being ... [snip!] ... being a husband.. I said she cant handle being a wife/mother. Suicide is the easiest, most selfish "way out." Makes me sick.”

Ok, a Realistic, insensative cunt.
Happy?

Quoting Ashlee♥:“ Awh. How nice. I would help if I could. I hope you get it paid Mama.”

no worries and thankyou

and to the one who have lost there parents or family to suicide im sorry youa ll had to deal with it its never ever easy

BTW Her husband isnt in the Military anymore. They met when they were both in. He is a contractor of some sort

Quoting :.Sara Beara.:.TWW!:“ It is selfish, cowardly, and the easy way out, there's no question in that.”

Exactly. My brother in law killed himself 4 years ago... Our family is STILL picking up the pieces. I cant believe anyone could be that selfish. Especially a parent. She wants her daughter to "find a good mother." What kind of shit is that? SHE is her mother.

Quoting Mimi*I Am Not Sasha*BGFM:“ That's the only thing that kept me from doing it: not wanting to be found by someone who loves me.”

I didn't pull the trigger because I saw the look in my friends face when he was running towards me and it broke my heart.

Never again, and I still beat myself up over even thinking that was the way to go.