vent :(

I HATE my boyfriends brother. Like intensely.. Even thinking about him makes me angry.

Wayne (Bf) moved from Victoria to the Gold Coast and thats where we met. Then 1 year later his brother wanted to move as well but my boyfriend didnt want him too (cause hes a crazy alcoholic) but I thought moving away would be good and I convinced my brother to let him move in with us. We only ended up living together for a few months and he never got a job. He would just sit on the couch all day, drinking, and throwing his bottle caps on the floor. So when me & Wayne decided to move to Byron Bay, I told him there is NO way I'm living with David again. Well we agreed that he could stay with us until he found his own place. He got a job but wasnt looking for his own place. Eventually Wayne had a go at him and told him to find his own place. That night he found somewhere to live. But he was still at our place EVERYDAY. He was always calling us at 4 in the morning to come pick him up from the pub (he treated me like a taxi just because I'm pregnant and don't drink)

Anyway to cut this short because I realise no one is going to read this.. These days now he drives 15-20 minutes to Waynes work at lunchtime everyday, then comes by after work everyday and gets drunk there (Wayne hates it). Then he tries to invite himself over to our house. He is constantly borrowing money cause he spends all his on alcohol & drugs and cant afford rent. The other weekend he slept with his friends mum and brags about it all the time. He is really mean to my puppy, he hits him with pliers, is always kicking him. I cant stand him and I wish he would move

I dont really know what I'm expecting people to say to this but I just really wanted to vent

Dudes an asshole!!
I would kill someone if they kicked MY dog.
Sounds like your man needs to stand up and stop letting his brother run the show.

Quoting Kiriana's Mama [WT]:“ Dudes an asshole!! I would kill someone if they kicked MY dog. Sounds like your man needs to stand up and stop letting his brother run the show.”

Yeah, I went nuts at him and dont take Max near him anymore cause he just mistreats him. I wish he would tell him not to come to his work everyday though. He has stopped coming round everyday cause Wayne told him to back off and doesnt let him come over every night when he tries to. He thinks the only bad thing about living in Byron is that David lives here as well. We are hoping he'll move back soon cause it costs him too much to live here plus get drunk everyday. We arent borrowing him anymore money

Quoting jade. [01.10.2009]:“ I HATE my boyfriends brother. Like intensely.. Even thinking about him makes me angry. Wayne (Bf) ... [snip!] ... him and I wish he would move I dont really know what I'm expecting people to say to this but I just really wanted to vent”

what a douche
I wouldn't allow him in my house.
if he came on my property, I'd threaten to call the cops .. if he really can't take the hint, I'd call them