Should I say something?

Ok last night my son came home from my moms house with 2 braids in his hair. I just did his hair monday to last until sunday. With this hair style now, I will have to do it over tomorrow. My mom does not know how to braid and she didnt ask me if I was ok with some one else doing my sons hair. I have worked very hard to keep my sons hair from breaking and being messed up and I feel like she does not have the right to do something like that with out my permission. What do you guys think?

Quoting Gaga-licious:“ Ok last night my son came home from my moms house with 2 braids in his hair. I just did his hair monday ... [snip!] ... messed up and I feel like she does not have the right to do something like that with out my permission. What do you guys think?”

I say tell her to leave it alone.

did you tell her not to do his hair without your permission?

It's just hair....

I know nothing about doing hair like this lol.
I am soooo white in the hair dept its ridiculous.
But if my mom did ANYTHING to Tanner I didn't want, I would say something.

I don't know really, I tell everyone not to touch my daughters hair. But i couldn't get mad at my mom or my MIL for touching my daughters hair because I know their doing it out of the kindness in their heart and not to piss me off.

and ah, you can do his hair on monday and it will last to sunday with still looking nice?   i'm jealous

Quoting Gaga-licious:“ Ok last night my son came home from my moms house with 2 braids in his hair. I just did his hair monday ... [snip!] ... messed up and I feel like she does not have the right to do something like that with out my permission. What do you guys think?”

Its just hair but I wouldnt be harsh about it.
My baby sitter cutt all my hair off as a kid and my parents didnt like it, but they didnt get to infuriated over it

i would just tell her what you just said, you work hard on your sons hair and you would like it if she didnt mess with it. she should understand

I would definitely say something.
If you want your child to have a certain hair style then she should keep it that way.

When my middle son was 5 I gave him this awesome 4 inch mohawk. Then they went to my dads for a week and he shaved his head. I was LIVID.

You have to say something or it will happen again.

Quoting adrian's_mommy [TSB]:“ It's just hair....”

It's just a little different then saying " it's just hair " .
a lot of people don't like other people, even family messing with their kids hair. I get pissed if someone else tries to do my daughters hair, I don't let anyone do her hair or even TOUCH it.

Quoting [trinity's|mom] ™:“ It's just a little different then saying " it's just hair " . a lot of people don't like other people, ... [snip!] ... their kids hair. I get pissed if someone else tries to do my daughters hair, I don't let anyone do her hair or even TOUCH it.”

I don't know. I don't find it that serious. Now, if they were cutting it or dying it, that would be a different story.

Quoting jaslynn♥:“ did you tell her not to do his hair without your permission?”

No I didnt think I would have to tell her that. She is funny acting with everyone around him to where no one can hold him but she lets someone I dont know in his hair.

Quoting Gaga-licious:“ No I didnt think I would have to tell her that. She is funny acting with everyone around him to where no one can hold him but she lets someone I dont know in his hair.”

maybe she thought you would be okay with it?

Quoting adrian's_mommy [TSB]:“ It's just hair....”

Do you see my sons hair??? My son has tons of hair because I take care of it. I dont know who this person is touching my sons hair and I dont know if they were sitting there ripping his hair out trying to comb it. It may not be something important to you but it would be to some one who cares...