Need opinions...
8799 postsposted 24th Jul
This is going to be a two part question, so please, if you answer the first, keep an eye out for the second, which will come after a few girls have answered the first.
For those of you who are single or even you taken Mamas, if you were hypothetically single, would you date this man?
Description:
Good listener
Respectful
Trainable (i.e you tell him to pick his dirty dishes up bc you are NOT his maid he does)
Responsible
Sweet
Good sense of humor
Not judgemental
Not chauvinistic
Mature
Is passionate ( which includes a temper, but he can control it)
Understanding
Has the usual male defects (i.e no sense of time... Right back could mean 3 hours, but you WILL get a call LOL)
So, by that description, would you date this man?
quoteFor those of you who are single or even you taken Mamas, if you were hypothetically single, would you date this man?
Description:
Good listener
Respectful
Trainable (i.e you tell him to pick his dirty dishes up bc you are NOT his maid he does)
Responsible
Sweet
Good sense of humor
Not judgemental
Not chauvinistic
Mature
Is passionate ( which includes a temper, but he can control it)
Understanding
Has the usual male defects (i.e no sense of time... Right back could mean 3 hours, but you WILL get a call LOL)
So, by that description, would you date this man?
I have 3 kids & live in Haviland, Kansas
43754 postsposted 24th Jul
I don't know how I feel about the trainable part.
I like a man to have a pair of his own.
quoteI like a man to have a pair of his own.
I live in Batman, Turkey
5589 postsposted 24th Jul
Sounds like my man. Minus the trainable part, he likes a clean home. He is always cleaning something.
quoteI have 2 kids & live in Panama City, Florida
10878 postsposted 24th Jul
Not too sure about trainable but everything else seems idealistic.
I just don't feel that responsible men should be reminded to clean up after themselves
quoteI just don't feel that responsible men should be reminded to clean up after themselves
I'm due March 6th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Cape Coral, Florida
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5567 postsposted 24th Jul
Quoting kelli.:“ I don't know how I feel about the trainable part. I like a man to have a pair of his own.”I agree with that, but at the same time, if I say, hey, you are a big boy, put your laundry in the hamper, I don't want to have to pick up after you, I want him to be man enough to do it and not expect me to wait on him. I want a guy who has a pair and his own opinion and way of doing things, but I do NOT want a sloth that I have to mother ya know? My ex-husbamd was like that... Didn't end well. LOL
I have 3 kids & live in Haviland, Kansas
posted 24th Jul
Quoting dani; knocked up!:“ Not too sure about trainable but everything else seems idealistic. I just don't feel that responsible men should be reminded to clean up after themselves”True, but he IS male LOL
I have 3 kids & live in Haviland, Kansas
2761 postsposted 24th Jul
Quoting Chelsey [29 Weeks!]:“ Well, sure. What's the catch? lol”
I have 2 kids & live in Lorain, Ohio
289 postsposted 24th Jul
Sounds pretty good! The next part of the question HAS to be along the lines of "but he's married" or He has a girlfriend!!! lol
quoteI'm due September 17th (a boy) & live in Jacksonville, Florida
posted 24th Jul
Quoting Chelsey [29 Weeks!]:“ Well, sure. What's the catch? lol”There are actually 2 catches... 1) he is 8 years younger, and my former BIL... The age thing isn't as bad as the former BIL thing. It seems scakalicious and I am not all about that, but the chemistry is unbeliebable, and he is everything his brother isn't... Its a fucked up situation, and I keep waivering between you only live once, jump in and enjoy the ride, and that way too inappropriate and scandalous and potentially could cause a lot of rifts...
I have 3 kids & live in Haviland, Kansas
posted 24th Jul
Quoting Catherine ~ STBMom2Jace:“ Sounds pretty good! The next part of the question HAS to be along the lines of "but he's married" or He has a girlfriend!!! lol”Nope. I am not sure if its better than that or worse... Quite possibly worse...
I have 3 kids & live in Haviland, Kansas
14199 postsposted 24th Jul
Quoting Catherine ~ STBMom2Jace:“ Sounds pretty good! The next part of the question HAS to be along the lines of "but he's married" or He has a girlfriend!!! lol”
I say he is gay. lol
I have 2 kids & live in Montana
posted 24th Jul
Quoting Bipolar Bear:“ There are actually 2 catches... 1) he is 8 years younger, and my former BIL... The age thing isn't as ... [snip!] ... jump in and enjoy the ride, and that way too inappropriate and scandalous and potentially could cause a lot of rifts... ”wow didn't see that coming! LOL my first thing would be.. if you have kids how would they take it? second would be are u and ur ex husbands family getting along?
I have 2 kids & live in Lorain, Ohio
posted 24th Jul
Quoting Bipolar Bear:“ There are actually 2 catches... 1) he is 8 years younger, and my former BIL... The age thing isn't as ... [snip!] ... jump in and enjoy the ride, and that way too inappropriate and scandalous and potentially could cause a lot of rifts... ”
Oh no! I'd say pass on him... thats no good. There are WAY too many men out there. How long ago was he a BIL? Is it your babies daddy brother?
I'm due September 17th (a boy) & live in Jacksonville, Florida
