OK, SO I KNOW THAT THERE ARE OTHER POSTS ABOUT BEING LEFT BY YOUR HUSBAND WHILE PREGNANT, BUT A LOT OF THEM ARE OLD. I WANT TO TALK TO PEOPLE WHO ARE GOING THROUGH IT RIGHT NOW, LIKE I AM. I AM 27 WEEKS PREGNANT AND MY HUSBAND WALKED OUT ON ME AT 21 WEEKS. IF ANYONE HAS ANYTHING THEY WOULD LIKE TO SHARE ON THIS, FEEL FREE. THANKS.

yep.. hubby broke up with me after we found out but he "came back" about 1 week later.. he wasnt ready... bla bla bla.. then he changed his mind..

well my boyfriend left me last week, and still no sign... he doesnt anwer my calls, nothing... but he has IM'd me with BS... Like how am i feeling? everything will be ok... whatever, how will everything be ok when ur not supportive... i know he will be back, but now i have the dilemma with will i want him back. i need to stop worrying about him, and us, and worry about my precious baby.  

yup, im STILL in the same boat....every week is a new excuse..this weeks excuse is, he needs to make sure this is what he wants for the rest of his life...hello? baby on the way...not something u can come and go with..

Well me and my boyfriend are still together....its just alot has changed..we fight all the time and I really don't know if it is my hormones or just us....we are currently not living together and that is really hard for me because I kinda feel like I'm doing this all by myself....and I am 22 weeks and 4 days, I have yet to be able to feel the baby kick from the outside...and it makes me sad to think that soon it will kick and I'll be able to feel it but my boyfriend won't because he is never around....but even when he is around all we do is fight...and I think that is mostly my fault because I feel he should try to be around more and stuff and I need to understand that he is working and I am working and our schedules conflict. sorry to vent guys...its just really hard and i think knowing there are other women out there going through the same thing might make me feel better.  

it the toughest thing to have to go through it by yourself, whether u are with him or not... I have felt little movements and im so excited and so sad at the same time that he isnt here like he was when i was pregnant with our little boy... All that seems to b on my mind now is, he is four hours away, when i go into labor, will he b there in time to hold my hand and help me through the birth of our next baby? I try to ask him, and it seems to make me the enemy... I have given up but sadly the pain is still here....  

My bf and I just found out I was preg on thanksgiving and he wouldnt talk about it. We had been "not really trying, not really preventing" for almost a year now and he always said how he was disappointed when I got my period.... I tell him Im preg and he wouldnt even talk about it for days.. until I kicked him out. I went through my preg with my son fighting with a man who didnt want to be there(even after we had planned and seen doctors to conceive)... and he cheated and we fought but we didnt live together.. So after a weeks baby daddy #2 wanted to come home promising he would talk about it more and be more supportive.. UUUGHH.. I think we have argued every day and YES I do think my hormones have a lot to do with it. Normally I might be doing me.. homework, cleaning the house, watching a movie., going to work.. now I am constantly wondering why he isnt touching me, kissing me, hugging me ,making love to me.... I had this prob with him before and I dont really remember it getting better but maybe I just ignored it.. now I remember it and it is really bothering me because I am noticing it.. I cried all day today.. It almost makes me just want to be alone... rather then disappointed on a day to day basis... anyone else feel like this? What should I do? I already told him and he says he is not going to change.. I dont want to push him away for good and then regret it..

Good day to all. My wife is now 4 months into the pregnancy. I love her dearly and will not leave her but the thought has crossed my mind more than once. She drives me mad. Some of the things she says is very hurtful and it is getting on my nerves. I am not sure what to do regarding the issue.

Hello! My husband and I had only been married a WEEK when we found out I was 4 1/2 weeks pregnant. We had been trying, even thuogh the doctor said my chances of conceiving were pretty slim. A WEEK after that, my husband started fighting with me over nothing and blow simple things out of proportion, so while he was around, I stayed stressed out and sick. That wasn't healthy for me or the baby. He left me before our TWO MONTH anniversary! And I haven't heard ANYTHING from him or any of his family in over a year!!! My daughter is now 6 months old. She's the most amazing thing that's ever happened to me, and looking back, I'm glad I did it on my own. True, it gets hard at times, but it's all worth the final outcome - a healthy, happy baby! If you need anyone to talk to, I'm here.

Derick wrote: Good day to all. My wife is now 4 months into the pregnancy. I love her dearly and will not leave her but the thought has crossed my mind more than once. She drives me mad. Some of the things she says is very hurtful and it is getting on my nerves. I am not sure what to do regarding the issue.

Yeah I feel for you guys sometimes. Because I will admit that I am downright MEAN sometimes. Im really suprised my husband hasn't stood up for himself more. But I think now since this is our third baby, he realizes it is hormones talking for the most part and ignores it or he will usually say something to make me laugh. Then I apologize, we make up, and then it happens all over again lol. Gotta have patience that is for sure. I am sure if she could have it another way she wouldn't want to be acting that way either. Sometimes I dont even want to be around myself! Making a baby isn't easy on the body, that is for sure. Good luck!

It is a good thing to see the ladies know they can be a little ferocious whilst pregnant... lol. I think a husband leaving his wife is disgarceful for any man, not vene to mention while she is pregnant. I think it is a lack of commitment and love that makes would-be-fathers run. I have great respect for a single mother or dad. It must be very hard work. Since our pregnancy I have learned so much about what happens and why. When I heard the first heart beat I sank into my shoes... It really shocked me... Only then did the pregnancy become alive to me. I have been treating my wife knowing the power of the hormones... It has been great! I have high regards for you ladies and lots of respect.

My hubby left me emotionally when we first found out we were pregnant. His dad had just died, then his sister died, and now there's fighting over his dads estate, yada yada yada. I needed someone emotionally stable, because I wasn't stable at all. I mean my body is going through so many changes, and I'm a basket case... u know pregnant stuff! So late in my first trimester I went to see my family in Ohio (we live in California) and just didn't come back. I couldn't take all the emotional stress and presures there. Was I selfish to leave my husband? Probably. I allmost miscarried twice while I was with my hubby due to stress, but I haven't had any problems being with my family. I talk to my hubby every night and I love him very much, but I could only take so much. I just didn't want to risk loosing the baby along with my husband, my father in law (who I was really close to, I lived with and took care of him for two years) and my sister in law. My hubby said a couple weeks ago that it was the best thing I could have ever done b/c it gave him time to get into a better emotional state to take care of me and Baby when the time comes, and it also gave him time to appreciate me. However, I'm not going back untill after Baby is born... I'm on vacation, lol!

My daughter's biological "father" left me while I was pregnant and we were engaged. Then he came back, but after treating me so horribly I called it quits. Best thing I ever did. It was hard to leave what was a long-term relationship and engagment and the father of my child and go through all of the hardships that I did , but I have so much to be thankful for because of it now. It taught me self-reliance, self-respect, what to expect from a [good] man, etc.

And like some other ladies my husband is in the military, and has deployed a lot over his 8 1/2 year career. But, WOO, is it different when that good man heeds the call of duty and when that other waste of space left. No comparison.

Do you have an emotional support system? Are you making sure your daughters are dealing with this okay? How are they?

i was 16 .... 7 and a half months pregnent...christmas night we broke up.....it hurt so bad and to make even worst he said he aint love me no more.....

we're togeth again ofcorse...but that hurt me so bad i still feel da pain wen i look his way...its da fact that he would cheat on me leave and me he dont love me all while im pregnent.....it better not happen again..i'll kill him lol

I've been married several years. We had been trying to conceive for years and didn't think it would happen. By surprise, I got pregnant!!! I was ecstatic, he was pissed off! He asked me to get an abortion - I told him No! So he told me he would not be there for me and it has proven true. He has left off and on throughout the pregnancy and even had an affair that lasted over a month! I am due soon and he came back a few weeks ago and now all of a sudden he is ready to be a father and wants to move on. I am at a crossroad - I don't know if I should stay or go. For the time being, I just want to focus on my pregnancy and hopefully have a healthy beautiful baby.

I feel he has stolen my joy from me during this pregnancy and I feel like he doesn't even deserve to be with me. Why should I stay after all that he has done to me?