My baby's father left right after i got pregnant (before we knew) for a girl he had a crush on in high school. once we found out i was pregnant he denied that i was pregnant, then said it wasnt his. he's gotten over those issues and gone to two of my appointments but he just recently moved his girlfriend in (she's having his baby 8 weeks after me), and the whole situation tears me apart because he still tries to get me to sleep with him even though he "loves" her.

Well to all my beautiful pregnant woman out there, i am in one of you too! 25 weeks pregnant and ALONE   and been alone my whole pregnancy. Its sooooo HARD, and i dont know how i've gotten so far all by myself. We all deserve a trophey!!!My babys father calls me from time to time, but it makes me feel even worse, just because i end up feeling more dissapointed...i dunno i honestly feel very STRONG at times BUT very weak as well. One things for sure i will get through this, and if i have to do it alone i will manage! stay strong my fellow woman! you are NOT alone!!!

he still around he actually wanted me to get pregnant and i was not sure if i wanted that yet but it happened

My baby's father broke up with me when I was a little over 16 weeks pregnant. I'm 20 weeks now. And I've heard from him ONCE asking how the baby is...
I found out that a week after he broke up with me he was already dating someone else...It's hard, but I'm trying to get through it the best I can and hope for the best but expect the worst!

we stayed together the whole time. At 11 weeks we went for pregnancy counselling. he wanted me to have an abortion and i didnt want to. after the appointment we went out to eat and i said i wasnt getting it done, he said ok, im done with this and walked out of the resturaunt. i drove to his moms and we talked. after aobut a week of talking he decided he would stay with me and we would have the bay. she was bonr aw week ago and he hasnt let her out of his sight. he loves her more than anything.

Of couse....I'm in the same dillema. However, my fiance hasn't left me, only he goes to bars all the time with his friends and doesn't understand why I don't go to. I usually sit at home, alone.....he likes to think he has been there for me. I don't consider your PREGNANT FIANCE sitting at home waiting for a phone call, crying herself to sleep the night before a big Dr. appt, being there for me. I just wonder if he resents the fact that I am pregnant. I know he has been pushing me to get an abortion b/c it is ruining his life (he is in med school). However, I am toughing it out trying to go to law school. Like that isn't going to be hard enough. I have even given him MULTIPLE opportunities to get out while its still early. He doesn't understand why I don't want him to be a part of this. What he lacks to understand is that he hasn't been a part of this since day one. Oh...I'm sorry...he did get me pregnant so I guess that is his contribution. Sorry ladies...I needed to get that off my mind. I'm sick now....but when haven't I been?? ha.....anyone else have non-stop morning sickness??

me and my SO are still together i think its made us stronger to have this baby we plan on getting married someday too

Quoting JENN1983:“ OK, SO I KNOW THAT THERE ARE OTHER POSTS ABOUT BEING LEFT BY YOUR HUSBAND WHILE PREGNANT, BUT A LOT OF ... [snip!] ... AND MY HUSBAND WALKED OUT ON ME AT 21 WEEKS. IF ANYONE HAS ANYTHING THEY WOULD LIKE TO SHARE ON THIS, FEEL FREE. THANKS.”

Okay ladies, here i go, i am currently 9 1/2 mos preggo and still ALONE! BUT i want to tell you, its been soooo hard, and now that "we" are at the end of the road (meaning end of the pregnancy) I am realizing i am happy he showed his ASS, becauseif i didnt know how he "really" was i probably would've still been fooled.
I have to face that this is the way it is, although its not right, remember, WOMAN are STRONG, and just think when you hold your baby in your arms, the thought of the babies father isnt there! Yes its completely wrong that these men out here leave ALL the financial responsibility to US! its not right, and if i could i would do something to change the world.
None of this makes sense! child support is a joke, but thats all you have! I grew up w/out a father, and the guilt i feel for not making the right choices for my unborn son is overbaring.
If any of you need support just write to me!
i LOVE all my beautiful sisters out there!
stay strong, no matter what! loose the looser, and by all means DO YOU!
love you all!

He sure did!
We had been dating for about 2 years...and had been with just each other for almost a year(as far as I know). And then I got pregnant and his excuse was....Are you ready for this???
"I want kids...BUT I want to be married first" 
And he doesnt want anything to do with her...called me about 2 weeks b4 I had her just to let me know that he didnt want her to have his last name or to be on her birth certificate.... JACKASS!

My fiance did not leave me. We were strong before but Lorelai has made us stronger. Yeah, we fight sometimes and he does things that annoy the living shit out of me...but we still love each other. I couldn't imagine loving anyone else.

After four month of Marriage the daddy #3 ( my current pregnancy) left me to buy everything on my own from crib and binkies. In his opinion He can't have kids so they baby can't be his. He was Wrong!!!! I couldn't find with a team of Bloodhounds

I have to say this after reading all the post. I could never think about a day without my kids. but some men today can concieve a baby and not care what happen to it. In some way it a little bit unfair. Women can't walk away. Feel someone so special grow inside you. You can't walk away. but sicken me
that men treat kids today either like weekend toys or trash. Truely Truely Sad.!!!!!

Quoting april5621:“ Iam 26 and 27 weeks pregnant, when i told the babys father that i been seeing for 3 years now.....He ... [snip!] ... his unborn baby! He is such a jerk! I guess its hard to not think of him and wonder why especially when your carrying his baby!”

Okay ladies, here i go, i am currently 9 1/2 mos preggo and still ALONE! BUT i want to tell you, its been soooo hard, and now that "we" are at the end of the road (meaning end of the pregnancy) I am realizing i am happy he showed his ASS, becauseif i didnt know how he "really" was i probably would've still been fooled.
I have to face that this is the way it is, although its not right, remember, WOMAN are STRONG, and just think when you hold your baby in your arms, the thought of the babies father isnt there! Yes its completely wrong that these men out here leave ALL the financial responsibility to US! its not right, and if i could i would do something to change the world.
None of this makes sense! child support is a joke, but thats all you have! I grew up w/out a father, and the guilt i feel for not making the right choices for my unborn son is overbaring.
If any of you need support just write to me!
i LOVE all my beautiful sisters out there!
stay strong, no matter what! loose the looser, and by all means DO YOU!
love you all!