Miscarried but pregnant again
posted 9th Jul
I am 28 I misscarried our first baby in March this year. I have been all over the place this was not helped by my sister only 18 announcing she was pg a few weeks ago. I found out yesterday that I am preganant. I am so worried and nervousI want to be just as excited as I was the first time but it's so hard. this coupled with the fact I broke my leg last week has left me feelingseriously conflicted. Does anyone has any advice I hate being this person that cries all the time I found my miscarriage one of the hardest things I have ever dealt with as did my husband. I don't want to be over the top worrying everyday until 3 months I know it's going to be hard?
quoteposted 9th Jul
I'm sorry for your loss and I wish you all the best with this pregnancy.
quoteposted 9th Jul
i know this is going to sound bad but i never stoped worrying until she was in my arms. i even felt funny ppl buying stuff for her b4 25 weeks. i was 18 weeks along when i gave birth to my son. it just didnt seem right to me that ppl where getting things for me so early. it was always on the back of my mind that things could go wrong again but im glad that things worked out this time. i hope you all the best with this pregnancy though
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Australiaposted 9th Jul
There's not much you can do to NOT worry. Before a miscarriage, you think, oh, you're pregnant, well now you're going to have a baby. After a miscarriage, you realize that's not necessarily so, and everything in your mindset about it just changes. It can't be helped. You're watching the calendar, not just for progress but for the safe time, the time when the chance of miscarriage goes down drastically and you can be sure you'll be a mommy.
I've been there. I've had two miscarriages in the last two and a half years...but I've also had a third pregnancy that ended up with a baby boy, who's now 4 months old and healthy. I remember feeling so...horribly dejected watching my sisters-in-law pregnant and delivering healthy babies. Like what's wrong with me? Why can't I do it?
The best thing you can do, is enjoy your pregnancy as much as you can. Yes, you'll worry, but that can't be helped. It is a part of you now, and you will naturally worry. Mark your milestones. Celebrate them! Like...we're 4 weeks now, we're 5 weeks now, we're 6 weeks now! Still going strong!!! Try to focus on how far you've gotten, not how much longer you have to go to be in the "safe zone." Talk to your doctor. Make sure he/she knows your concerns, and absolutely knows about the miscarriage.
Good luck. Your situation is not unique, and nor are you doomed to another miscarriage necessarily. My little boy is proof that babies happen after miscarriage, even when you've almost given up hope.
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Utahposted 9th Jul
i'm 33 weeks along, and even though i know we're in the "safe" zone... i still worry every single day, but we've made it this far.
and i just keep thinking about meeting my little prince.
much love and baby dust for you and this pregnancy mommie!
quoteposted 9th Jul
Aww sorry for your lose...but dont worry everything will be fine. I had two previous miscarriages befor this successful one. I am now 34 weeks along and everything is great. It's not easy to deal with a miscarriage but just be excited about your current pregnancy....trust me the worrying never goes away, but you just have to trust that things will be ok.
quoteposted 9th Jul
I'm sorry for your loss but its impossible for you to be due on April 1st. Are you sure you put the right date up?
quoteposted 26th Jul
I'm in the same boat, found out three days ago I was pregnant (we were trying) and I miscarried in March of this year too. Looks like we're due on the same day too. This is my first pregnancy and i'm terrified every day to lose it as I did the first one. I'd love to make a buddy and go through all this together...
quoteposted 26th Jul
i feel the exact same way u do. i miscarried and then a little over a week later i got pregnant again. so that makes me nervous bc i got prego again so soon. but now im 9 weeks and eveything is going good. just keep ur head up and stay positive.
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