Pressuring for sex
57 postsposted 8th Jul
My fiance keeps pressuring me for sex but i dont want to. I do not enjoy it what so ever and most of the time it just hurts. And everytime we talk about it all i can think of is the pain and stuff. And to top it off we dont get much privacy either. What can I do so it doesnt hurt or so he will stop pressuring me
quoteI have 2 angel babies & live in Michigan
3884 postsposted 8th Jul
Lube...it works most of the time. My hubby is the same way, he gets it once a week and normally I dont want it. I just do it and be done. Men suck!
quoteI'm due July 10th, have 1 child & live in Pennsylvania
20321 postsposted 8th Jul
You may not like my idea.
But tell him he sounds like a perv and you feel unloved for not being able to hold up to his expectations.. plus pressuring is not cool. Not cool at all.
quoteBut tell him he sounds like a perv and you feel unloved for not being able to hold up to his expectations.. plus pressuring is not cool. Not cool at all.
I have 1 child & live in Michigan
18119 postsposted 8th Jul
tell him straight out no, you don't want to, did you find out what your problem was? I would get that checked before having sex anyway. x
quoteI have 2 kids & live in Stevenston, United Kingdom
694 postsposted 8th Jul
Have you tried using lube.. Or making sure your turned on first..
quoteI have 1 child & live in Fort Myers, Florida
11729 postsposted 8th Jul
Sorry, but what happens after you get married? Are you expecting him to live in a sexless marriage?
That's not fair to him at all.
quoteThat's not fair to him at all.
I have 1 child & live in Ontario
posted 8th Jul
Quoting Waiting on her:“ Have you tried using lube.. Or making sure your turned on first..”
We have tried it all and i do tell him no but he doesnt stop bugging until he get what he wants. His mom said he has always been that way since he was little
I have 2 angel babies & live in Michigan
posted 8th Jul
Quoting speaktruth2powr:“ Sorry, but what happens after you get married? Are you expecting him to live in a sexless marriage? That's not fair to him at all.”
Its not that we dont at all just not often as he would like
I have 2 angel babies & live in Michigan
3116 postsposted 8th Jul
Quoting Morning Wood:“ You may not like my idea. But tell him he sounds like a perv and you feel unloved for not being able to hold up to his expectations.. plus pressuring is not cool. Not cool at all.”
I have 1 child & live in Germantown, Maryland
posted 8th Jul
Quoting His Baby Cakes:“ Its not that we dont at all just not often as he would like”
Sexual incompatibility is the 2nd cause of divorce...I would reconsider getting married.
I have 1 child & live in Ontario
posted 8th Jul
Quoting speaktruth2powr:“ Sexual incompatibility is the 2nd cause of divorce...I would reconsider getting married.”
We arent incompatible at all. Its not that i dont want to but the pain is always there and it always hurts and i havent had the big o either.
I have 2 angel babies & live in Michigan
posted 8th Jul
Quoting His Baby Cakes:“ We arent incompatible at all. Its not that i dont want to but the pain is always there and it always hurts and i havent had the big o either.”
Have you seen a doctor about this?
I have 1 child & live in Ontario
posted 8th Jul
Quoting His Baby Cakes:“ We arent incompatible at all. Its not that i dont want to but the pain is always there and it always hurts and i havent had the big o either.”
Have you asked your doctor why your in pain? They should be able to help you.. Or just tell him to take it easy and give your body a minute to open up..
I have 1 child & live in Fort Myers, Florida
posted 8th Jul
OP see the doctor it may have something to do with your post yesterday??? x
quoteI have 2 kids & live in Stevenston, United Kingdom
posted 8th Jul
Quoting Waiting on her:“ Have you asked your doctor why your in pain? They should be able to help you.. Or just tell him to take it easy and give your body a minute to open up..”
No but i really need to i guess. Thanks!!!
I have 2 angel babies & live in Michigan
