re: I'm not sure if I am overreacting

Quoting ~GoT mIlK?~?~?~i Do~!~!~!:“ than your deffinatly not overreacting if this isnt the first time. i dont see why she would say he's ... [snip!] ... have a relationship with you, but doesnt seem like he wants one really bad if he is going to listen to what his wife is saying”

 

Quoting April &{{Kaycee♥}}:“ he told me his phone has been broke thats why he hadn't answered my calls.....but it didn't make ... [snip!] ... brother..... I'm closest to my mom.....so it bothers his wife when he has anything to do with me.....she's a little insecure”

It's really up to you then. I'd try to make it work if I could. But only you know if the relationship is worth it. 
hah I'd say she's more then a little insecure.... scared of your husbands daughter? ... hmmm... it makes more sense to suck up to you then do that. weird women. 
I'm sorry you have to deal with that bs. 

Well thank you for your advice everyone
i just really needed to get this off my chest

Quoting ~GoT mIlK?~?~?~i Do~!~!~!:“ but why didnt he call her for two months? and not answer her calls?”

my point. did she ask him? no.

she got into this knowing he ignored her for years. she cant expect him to be father of the yer over night.

instead she made a rash decision that im sure she'll regret since she went to the trouble of getting to know him after all this time.

Quoting Renay Bockes:“ Also think about how he will be in and out of your child's life, do you want your child to think thats apropriate?”

because she's given him that chance?

Quoting April &{{Kaycee♥}}:“ this isn't the first time its happened.... i already know for a fact when he is with his wife that ... [snip!] ... IMO i think he could and should have told her to stop but he didn't i guess i didn't phrase that correctly in the OP.... ”

so why dont you go have a little chat with his wife and let her know that she needs to shut her trap.

Quoting April &{{Kaycee♥}}:“ he told me his phone has been broke thats why he hadn't answered my calls.....but it didn't make ... [snip!] ... brother..... I'm closest to my mom.....so it bothers his wife when he has anything to do with me.....she's a little insecure”

so tell him you think it's crap because he answers your brother's calls.

but if he's telling the truth. you just screwed yourself over.

Quoting P O L I C E:“ my point. did she ask him? no. she got into this knowing he ignored her for years. she cant expect ... [snip!] ... she made a rash decision that im sure she'll regret since she went to the trouble of getting to know him after all this time.”

did u not read the thread.....yes i did ask him.....and he said it's because his phone had been broken......

Quoting April &{{Kaycee♥}}:“ did u not read the thread.....yes i did ask him.....and he said it's because his phone had been broken......”

"did you not read on."

i addressed that.

Quoting P O L I C E:“ so tell him you think it's crap because he answers your brother's calls. but if he's telling the truth. you just screwed yourself over.”

i guess giving people the shortened version of this is hard for them to understand my point.....
they got divorced when i was 12.....and our relationship has been off and on.....but thank you for your advice anyway.

Quoting April &{{Kaycee♥}}:“ i guess giving people the shortened version of this is hard for them to understand my point..... ... [snip!] ... they got divorced when i was 12.....and our relationship has been off and on.....but thank you for your advice anyway.”

i understand what its like to not have people n your life who are supposed to be guaranteed to be there. but as ive gotten older ive learned that you should always do the right thing no matter how much you dont want to. your dad made another attempt to contact you which he hasnt always done. acknowledging him when he aknowleges you wont hurt anyone.

Quoting P O L I C E:“ i understand what its like to not have people n your life who are supposed to be guaranteed to be ... [snip!] ... dad made another attempt to contact you which he hasnt always done. acknowledging him when he aknowleges you wont hurt anyone.”

and after awhile you get tired of being let down....
i felt more foolish for falling for it every couple of years or so.....i've done so well without him so who says i can't continue

Quoting April &{{Kaycee♥}}:“ and after awhile you get tired of being let down.... i felt more foolish for falling for it every couple of years or so.....i've done so well without him so who says i can't continue”

you cant get let down if you don't expect anything.

wow april she really is stupid lol

Quoting ~itsa boy~:“ wow april she really is stupid lol”

wow ummmm.......no need need for name calling.......