re: Pregnancy jealousy in families..?

Quoting Momma Squishy of 2:“ My cousin, who's husband refuses to have anymore kids, other than their 4 year old daughter. We've got ... [snip!] ... 2 months trying to tell me that we just couldn't afford this kid, so we needed to abort it, and she'd gladly pay for it -__-"”

Thats messed up. I wouldn't be able to have a relationship with her anymore.

im jelous of my 2 cousins who just keep having babies with whomever and everyone loves them and i who got married and then planned a baby no one has isited my baby or call to see how we are

well she's not family nor a friend of mine... my so's best friends girlfriend was extremely jealous when she found out I was pregnant.. everytime someone would ask me about my pregnancy she would try to change the subject to something about her... shortly after I found out she started ttc... even though her and her boyfriend don't have a job and live off his parents.. she got pregnant and came over to let us know.. she even went as far as telling me I looked fat and she wasn't going to gain as much weight...(i know wtf!) she came to my baby shower... and again tried to flip the attention to her and her pregnancy.. , she tells me how she wants to get the most expensive things for her baby... always comparing ... and even told me the name I picked out is weird and she doesn't like uncommon names...

Quoting Emily Z. & Ellie A.:“ My own mother, unfortunately. She has five children & when she found I was pregnant...she all of ... [snip!] ... she's just selfish. She's had this issue before when her best friend got pregnant & she got pregnant like a month later.”

Oh my god that is crazy. Can't let her daughter have the limelight?

Not about being pregnant, but still got jealously in the family....

My fiance's sister and her boyfriend have been dating for 10 years this month... her boyfriend never had the urge to get married and they had a baby last year. We got engaged in June of 2008 and have been planning this wedding for a year. We're getting married on the 17th. All ofa sudden he wants to get married. So he's planning a surprise wedding for my fiance's sister....ONE WEEK BEFORE OURS....on the 10th... ughwhatever.

Quoting cherokee mama [33w]:“ Is anyone in your circle of family/friends jealous because of the attention your getting from being pregnant? ... [snip!] ... though she lives states away). Why is there jealousy in families? I'm not even affected by all the attention I'm getting.”

Omg!!!!!!! i really couldnt agree any more... I guess ppl just need attention

it's like that in my family too. When my mom was pregnant with my oldest brother, my aunt got insanely jealous and got pregnant with my cousin. One of my other cousins, ran out and got pregnant because she was jealous that I lost my virginity before she did. It was a bit ridiculous and I can admit I was jealous of her (and my sister, who got pregnant the month after) but I'm not going to do anything aboutit.

So she wasnt in family.. But she was my best friend... When I got preg with my son, I could tell she was kinda jealous... "Hate on me much?" anywho she tried to hide it, but she let it slip at times with sly comments about my pregnancy or my baby daddy... Then she got a new b/f and within like a month she was like "oh I think I'm preg" mind you i was 8 months already.. So i was like coolour kids will be bffs!!!!!!! however i doubted it from jump..She told everyone she preg and Blah Blah... I wanted to be happy for her I did.. But she was acting super Bitchy and I could tell she was faking. Any who... When I was 10 weeks along I had a vaginal ultrasound done, and since I hadnt told my parents I was preg I left it with her... Seeing as how she was g/m anyway... FF to havinging my son... Sitting in the hospital i'm surfing the web (myspace] and I come across a page with an ultrasound that looks an awfull lot like mine.. I click on it..
Low and behold its her mans page!!!!!!!!!!!!! With my ultrasound on it!!!!!!! Only the top had been cut off!!!!!!! like with the name and hospital and stuff.. I FLIP out!! oh and suppodedly she was like 10 weeks into her "fake" pregnancy too (same as me in the ultrasound] I ask her mother did she have an ultrasound and she said no... Then she calls me with the most bogus tude!!!!!!!!! Saying that thats her ultrasound why would anyone wanna steal my baby's"BLAH BLAH BLAH. lMAO! Got caught up did we? So i hack her myspace and email.. Myspace sure enough its mine... and email nothing except old emails from the ex she was with rite when i got preg... She LIED to him and said she was preg, and that all the stress he put her through made her miscarry... He was 20 and married and she was 17 wow!!!!!!! she was never knocked up then.. She drank and smoked.. &she had been using my ultrasound as her avitar for Y! messenger.... The next day, i get a myspace message saying that yes she did steal my ultrasound and pass it off as hers, but only so her stupid ass aunt would stop talking ish" wtf? cazy stuff... Then after my son was born went to the salon she and i both use to go to, and my stylist to me Ole girl told her she was preg in Oct after the first lie and b4 stealing my ultrasound, and miscarried again!!!!!!!!!!! i was like wtf? SHE HAS NEVER BEEN PREG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! then I found out she told me and her family she miscarried while telling him and his famo she was still preggers!!!!!!!! she was due in AUG.. I saw her the other day, and NO BELLY BUMP!!!!!!!!! lmao! God dont like ugly... This stuff only happens on TV, i swear