OMFG I HATE HER (vent)

So my boyfriend and I rent the basement of my dad's apartment, we share the kitchen but that's it. He's just helping us out through a tough spot, because our last apt. developed really bad mold and we didn't have enough time to find a place to live before moving out (I'm severely allergic, and it got the the point where I couldn't breathe!). My sister Jessica who just turned 17 lives with my dad. We've always had our issues, and we're just so different that we can't seem to get along. Since I'm not technically "living with her," I mind my own business and leave her alone. But she is still such a CUNT. My dad goes away every second weekend to be with his girlfriend, and he expects the house to be clean when he comes home (which is understandable). My sister refuses to clean and acknowledge that any mess is hers (like the time she tried to convince my dad that I had to clean her washroom...). My dad is always freaking out on my boyfriend and I for EVERYTHING, things we obviously didn't even do. Once my sister stole our whole pack of toilet paper, and my dad blamed it on my friends... like who the fuck steals toilet paper anyways? I fucking hate her. Right now I can't even go upstairs to the kitchen because she's in the livingroom, that's how much I hate her; I'm afraid I'm going to hurt her if she says something to me, and I feel bad about that. I don't want to get into what sparked this vent today, it's just one thing after another.

Although in an immature moment that brought happiness to my dull day, I may have pissed her off on purpose... maybe lmao. There's a memo from the building to everyone asking them to "remove their dog excreaments." I may have accidenlty underlined the word dog and excreament and wrote that I didn't know they could ask us to removed Jessica from the home, then left it on the diningroom table. She freaked out and I smiled lmao... I feel young again, lmao.

youre right.

that was a pretty stupid thing to do.

glad acting like a 13 yr old made you feel a little better about yourself.

Quoting P O L I C E:“ youre right. that was a pretty stupid thing to do. glad acting like a 13 yr old made you feel a little better about yourself.”

Oh come on, I did it as a joke

If you fuel the fire, youre going to get what you ask for...IMO.
I realize she shouldnt treat you the way she probably does but you need to be the bigger person in the situation. Have a discussion about her behavior with your dad or move out but dont taunt her and then wonder why she acts like that toward you.

i think saying that you hate your sister is a pretty strong thing, you may not like the things she says or does but going as far as to hating her for it...seems a little extreme....why dont you sit down and talk to her?

Quoting My Hungry Hippo:“ Oh come on, I did it as a joke”

i get how people can drive you ape shit...but it seems like you already have enough problems on your plate to risk having another....

especially for something that stupid.

Quoting *Jenn*Madisons Mommy!*:“ If you fuel the fire, youre going to get what you ask for...IMO. I realize she shouldnt treat you the ... [snip!] ... a discussion about her behavior with your dad or move out but dont taunt her and then wonder why she acts like that toward you.”

That was honestly the first thing I've ever done since I moved in here. I did have a discussion with my dad, who will be speaking to her yet again.

Quoting Sammi + Bailey:“ i think saying that you hate your sister is a pretty strong thing, you may not like the things she says ... [snip!] ... she says or does but going as far as to hating her for it...seems a little extreme....why dont you sit down and talk to her?”

Because I actually hate her. I do feel bad about it, but to me she's not like my sister or someone I care about, we've never really lived together or communicated in any way.

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Hate is a strong word.

I may be immature too, because I giggled. lol.

Sorry she's being such an ass! Hopefully you won't have to be there long!!  

Quoting P O L I C E:“ i get how people can drive you ape shit...but it seems like you already have enough problems on your plate to risk having another.... especially for something that stupid.”

I know, I'll admit it was stupid.
My boyfriend and I are trying to get out of here, but he lost his job and there's a low vacancy rate here. It's like I already have a million and one problems without her. And yes, it's pathetic and sad that I got joy out of hurting her, lol.

Quoting bia.:“ . Hate is a strong word.”

I know.

Quoting ~*Tasha*~:“ I may be immature too, because I giggled. lol. Sorry she's being such an ass! Hopefully you won't have to be there long!!  ”

I thought it was funny and I seriously meant it as a joke, I didn't think she'd take it so harshly. The sad part is how good I felt when she freaked out about it... I told her just to cross out her name and put someone elses, lol.

For real who steals toilet paper. We had my husbands friend stay with us for 2 weeks but we told him he had to get all his own stuff.. He couldn't use none of ours besides like the dishes and the shower or whatever but like food and body supplies and all that were all his... Well the toilet paper wasn't a biggy bcuz he was hardly there. BUT the day he moved out he took our whole pack of toilet paper and my husbands razors. I mean come on people toilet paper???????

Way to be mature... and step down to your sister's level...