re: Porn?

Quoting Emily Z. & Ellie A.:“ Umm, she wasn't. She was giving her advice. You need to chill the fuck out, everyone is entitled to their opinion.”

exactly i was giving my opinion..idiot

Quoting Emily Z. & Ellie A.:“ Better porn than cheating, right? My sex life has remained extremely active throughout the pregnancy, ... [snip!] ... the pregnancy, I'll be 37 weeks tomorrow & we have sex daily, at least once or twice. So, my SO really has no need.”

no one asked how many times you have sex  

you are such a bitch in all her threads

Quoting Emily Z. & Ellie A.:“ Better porn than cheating, right? My sex life has remained extremely active throughout the pregnancy, ... [snip!] ... the pregnancy, I'll be 37 weeks tomorrow & we have sex daily, at least once or twice. So, my SO really has no need.”

Hmm yeah, after going back over it this was a pretty shitty response. Who asked about your sex life?

Quoting HautéMamaInYoFace:“ Hmm yeah, after going back over it this was a pretty shitty response. Who asked about your sex life?”

How is that a shitty response? I said it's better porn than cheating, which is true. Of course, if you'd rather your SO cheat on you, that's your prerogative.

Quoting ❥Love Lockdown:“ no one asked how many times you have sex   you are such a bitch in all her threads”

In all her threads? I believe I've replied in two...so if she's only made two threads, then I guess so. & in her fucked up shelter one, I actually gave her real advice - counseling. So, fuck off.

Quoting ☆CAN+1[33wks!]:“ I found porn all over the computer today that my fiancee was looking at. He's never looked at it before. ... [snip!] ... me so much, but I can't help but let it. Especially since things aren't going that great with our relationship right now.”

 

I know what thats like...feeling ugly and what not. Everyone always tells me I am being emotional and hormonal, which just makes me feel worse.

He should respect your wishes.

If it bothers you, tell him. He should be willing to let it go if it hurts you. But men are very visual. If your sex life is going down he probably wants to masturbate, know what I mean? That doesn't mean he finds you any less attractive though!

all men maturbate. end of story. its better then having sex with different girls right? i really doubt thats the first time he looked at it. its just the first time he got caught. my husband watches porn like once or twice a week. i dont mind, keeps him off my ja ja. lol. it has nothing to do with you. i promise.

Quoting mommyofangels21:“ all men maturbate. end of story. its better then having sex with different girls right? i really doubt ... [snip!] ... watches porn like once or twice a week. i dont mind, keeps him off my ja ja. lol. it has nothing to do with you. i promise.”

Not all look at porn though. And it's natural to be offended. A lot of women don't like it. To say "porn or have sex with other women" is ridiculous. It's just porn. They don't NEED porn. I like porn and I will look at porn, but it's not necessary.

Quoting Teresa Loves J&A&V:“ Not all look at porn though. And it's natural to be offended. A lot of women don't like it. To say "porn ... [snip!] ... other women" is ridiculous. It's just porn. They don't NEED porn. I like porn and I will look at porn, but it's not necessary.”

im taking it you dont believe all men masturbate either right? something like 99.8% do. some happen to watch porn. theres nothing wrong with it. theres always gonna be someone prettier and more sexy then you. your man is gonna fantisize about other women. if its a porn star, a movie star, or some girl he works with. i seems inscure to be upset over your so watching porn or jacking off. i know hes comming to bed with me. i know that if i wanted sex hes not gonna go jerk off instead. but if he wants sex and i dont id rather him go jerk off to some porn then go out and find someone else.

Quoting mommyofangels21:“ im taking it you dont believe all men masturbate either right? something like 99.8% do. some happen to ... [snip!] ... go jerk off instead. but if he wants sex and i dont id rather him go jerk off to some porn then go out and find someone else.”

Yes I do believe that not all men masturbate either, saying they do is not a fact, same with looking at porn. Religous reasons come to mind.

The fact that you feel "if I don't have sex with him, he will either jack off to porn or fuck someone else" is really sad. It can be ok to look at porn, you're acting like if he can't look at porn he will cheat. Sorry, some men have morals. Only 70% of men between 18-34 look at porn once a month or more. That's a LOT who do not. If the OP is offended with it her SO should easily be willing to give it up. It is NOT important nor necessary.

I can honestly say I do NOT fantasize about anyone other than my husband, nor do I find others "more attractive." I can't say the same for my husband, but I can say the last time he looked at porn was with me, July 1st. Before that God knows how long it has been, he just doesn't really like it all that much. But am I ok with it? Yes. In fact, I like it. Don't really watch it that often (can't).

I don't get why women don't want their guys looking at porn. My SO will not watch porn to save his life and it kills me. I beg him and he still wont. I bring up stuff I've seen on pornos recently and he just says whateva and changes the subject. You women should be glad your man will watch porn.

Quoting hill&cam:“ I don't get why women don't want their guys looking at porn. My SO will not watch porn to save his life ... [snip!] ... seen on pornos recently and he just says whateva and changes the subject. You women should be glad your man will watch porn.”

Why? I'm fine with our sex life. (Not that I don't want him to, IDC, he doesn't and I'm fine with that.) Why should I *want* him to?

Quoting mommyofangels21:“ im taking it you dont believe all men masturbate either right? something like 99.8% do. some happen to ... [snip!] ... go jerk off instead. but if he wants sex and i dont id rather him go jerk off to some porn then go out and find someone else.”

I think that OP is upset because, as you know, your self-esteem isn't exactly at it highest when you're pregnant. And if your relationship is already not doing well, then you find that, you probably wouldn't feel like "Oh well, all guys look at porn!"

I would feel ugly. OP also said that they aren't having sex very much bc of the pregnancy. If my SO wan't having sex with me, then I found a bunch of porn on his computer...welll...

Quoting Kandi☮:“ My thoughts on the porn thing with my SO is better his hand than another girls vagina... im starting ... [snip!] ... all work out..... but yea we dont have sex much anymore... and id rather him watch porn to get off than go find someone else..”

yeah well, thats where it starts. you think a man just all the sudden goes out and has sex with another women. no it starts with him fantasizing about other women or "using his hand".