re: Porn?

Didnt you just make a post that you are leaving him and he pushes you and abuses you but your mom told you to stay? Thats crazy, let him have the porn and leave his ass. Oh and shelters are open on July 4th.

Quoting WishAponAstar:“ Didnt you just make a post that you are leaving him and he pushes you and abuses you but your mom told ... [snip!] ... you but your mom told you to stay? Thats crazy, let him have the porn and leave his ass. Oh and shelters are open on July 4th.”

Yep.

Quoting ☆CAN+1[32wks!]:“ I found porn all over the computer today that my fiancee was looking at. He's never looked at it before. ... [snip!] ... me so much, but I can't help but let it. Especially since things aren't going that great with our relationship right now.”

exactly if it bothers u these girls opinions on here dont matter esp if they tell u better than cheating...u dont feel pretty/attractive or sexy cuz ur big and when ur SO looks at porn it doesnt make u feel better either esp. knowing he does it...ik how u feel i went through the same thing, it hurt my feelings and made me feel less attractive. OBVIOUSLY its better than cheating but its something I myself being pregnant doesnt wanna know or see esp. from the person I used to have sex with EVERYDAY and had amazing sex...it hurts. just keep ur head high...personal, but what about just giving him oral? or will he not be satisfied enough?

Quoting WishAponAstar:“ Didnt you just make a post that you are leaving him and he pushes you and abuses you but your mom told ... [snip!] ... you but your mom told you to stay? Thats crazy, let him have the porn and leave his ass. Oh and shelters are open on July 4th.”

that was rude..why even bother on commenting on this if ur just gona shit on her? keep it to urself

Quoting Danielle:4 more weeks!!:“ exactly if it bothers u these girls opinions on here dont matter esp if they tell u better than cheating...u ... [snip!] ... sex...it hurts. just keep ur head high...personal, but what about just giving him oral? or will he not be satisfied enough?”

I do. Latly he's been wanting to try anal. But I don't want to. I guess that's why he doesn't want to have sex. IDK it all just makes no sense to me. I tried talking to him about it but he doesn't want to and just says its no big deal.

Quoting Danielle:4 more weeks!!:“ that was rude..why even bother on commenting on this if ur just gona shit on her? keep it to urself”

It wasnt meant to be rude, if he is abusing her, why stay with him and worry about his porn problem? What if one night he abuses her and she loses her baby bc of it....thats messed up and I dont agree with her mom on trying to get her to stay and work things out. She tried to say that everything is closed in her other post and I let her know that shelters werent. Sorry but if she is staying with a guy that abuses her she is shitting on her self anyways.

Quoting Danielle:4 more weeks!!:“ that was rude..why even bother on commenting on this if ur just gona shit on her? keep it to urself”

Umm, she wasn't. She was giving her advice. You need to chill the fuck out, everyone is entitled to their opinion.

Quoting Danielle:4 more weeks!!:“ that was rude..why even bother on commenting on this if ur just gona shit on her? keep it to urself”

LOL @ you being a complete dumbass.  

OP you are an idiot for staying. You are pregnant and your husband is abusing you. Who is more imortant? Him and his porn addiction and heavy hands...or your unborn child. Tisk tisk on fucking society today, man.

Quoting Instigator ™:“ LOL @ you being a complete dumbass.   OP you are an idiot for staying. You are pregnant and ... [snip!] ... is more imortant? Him and his porn addiction and heavy hands...or your unborn child. Tisk tisk on fucking society today, man.”

Thanks. That totally boosted my self esteem and makes me feel like I can leave him....cause I'm an idiot..

Quoting ☆CAN+1[32wks!]:“ Thanks. That totally boosted my self esteem and makes me feel like I can leave him....cause I'm an idiot..”

Well, obviously being beat and putting your poor baby in danger isn't enough encouragement for you. So someone has to say it. Excuse me for not finding any pity for someone who has alterior plans for her child, other than ultimate safety. I save my pity for women who DO leave and have trials and tribulations in life due to the horrible situation they have survived. I'm a fucking dick. What can I say?

Quoting ☆CAN+1[32wks!]:“ Thanks. That totally boosted my self esteem and makes me feel like I can leave him....cause I'm an idiot..”

And this statement is for your own good. But, check it out. You don't need this website to boost your self esteem.   If you can't do it, it can't be done. You need to go chill somewhere quiet and realize how much you are worth to this world, your baby, and yourself.

Quoting Instigator ™:“ Well, obviously being beat and putting your poor baby in danger isn't enough encouragement for you. So ... [snip!] ... and have trials and tribulations in life due to the horrible situation they have survived. I'm a fucking dick. What can I say?”

I didn't post that thread that long ago. I'm still thinking about what I should do and how to do it. It's not an easy thing to decide. Especially doing it all alone. Sorry if that makes me a bad person for not acting right away. But I need to be smart about it and know what I'm doing. Not just do it on a whim.

Quoting ☆CAN+1[32wks!]:“ I didn't post that thread that long ago. I'm still thinking about what I should do and how to do it. ... [snip!] ... me a bad person for not acting right away. But I need to be smart about it and know what I'm doing. Not just do it on a whim.”

Not just do it on a whim? If your house was on fire, would you consider your options before getting the fuck out? Because in theory...it sounds like your house is on fire.

Also...it sounds more like you are considering staying. If you were really concerned with what to do about leaving...I honestly doubt you would give a FUCK about whether your SO is looking at porn or not. Much more, sit around and TRY to have sex with him.

Quoting Instigator ™:“ Not just do it on a whim? If your house was on fire, would you consider your options before getting ... [snip!] ... you would give a FUCK about whether your SO is looking at porn or not. Much more, sit around and TRY to have sex with him.”

  i must agree... why stay if your house is on fire... you should want the best for you and your LO.....and apparently staying isnt a good thing.. and you've seemed to have alot of problems with him.. and he seems like he has anger problems from your past post.. what if he gets mad and hurts your LO cause your to far out of reach.... think about you and you LO FIRST not some POS who is going to abuse you..... I really hope you dont stay in that fire its gonna get you nothing but Burned and hurt

i had this problem with josh. i confronted him and told him exactly how it made me feel and he respected it because we haven't had a problem since. i think because it's so available nowadays, guys use it as a relief when there's not much of a sex-life. even if he acts like he doesn't care just let him know it bothers you and hopefully he'll consider it the next time he thinks about looking at porn.