I'm irrate! Long n angry lol.

Okay, my fuck up of a SO went out last night (whatever didn't really care.) Around 11am I started to get a little worried because he wasn't home yet, and when he goes out he's home by like 8am or so. So I called the house that he stayed at. His cousins mom told me he brought his cousin and her kids up to Binghamton (where I live) to grab his other cousins birthday present for today..

Okay whatever, he'll stop by the house and I'll get to see him. Yeah right! He stopped by the house with her two kids for a whole whopping 10 minutes. She was a bitch to me, didn't even acknowledge me or anything. She walked all around the house that I had just cleaned with her fucking muddy shoes on and let her son get into EVERYTHING!  

Whatever I thought to myself. Her daughter has CP and what pissed me off the most is the fact that my SO carried her in! WTF!? My son has CP, is 5, and weighs 40 somepoundsand I'm 9 months pregnant.. I have to carry my son everywhere because my SO is to lazy to.... Okay, so as I'm trying to calm down, he comes up and gives me a kiss and says I'll see you later...

What the bloody hell?! He's leaving again?! Oh yeah, he was leaving again! His mom asked if he could run by her house (its on the way to his cousins house), and you know what that cock knockers excuse was to why he couldn't?!? "I don't have gas money for that..."

He drove 45 minutes one way just to come up here... then has to run back... and then run back up here!? And he doesn't have gas money!? UGH!

He said goodbye to my son and my son starts to bawl saying that daddys never going to come back.... and that he wants to go in daddys new car and hang out with daddy not mommy... This broke my heart... it's such bullshit. He can't even spend his day off from work home with us!


When he left he said he would be home in a "couple of hours". I seriously am so pissed and I'm so done with his bullshit. I'm honestly thinking that I want to leave and never come back. I'm almost 2cm dilated and I'm almost 37 weeks... I can go any day...

I don't know what to do. His mom told me to just pack me shit and leave for a couple of days to show him how it feels... What do you guys think?

And call him whatever you want, he is a no good, POS, douchebag,scumbag, deadbeat , fuck up, cock sucking, cousin fucking, dad.

Wow, I am sorry that you have to deal with that  
I really hope that he can get his act together for you, your son and your baby!

Quoting ~36 weeks~:“ Okay, my fuck up of a SO went out last night (whatever didn't really care.) Around 11am I started to ... [snip!] ... And call him whatever you want, he is a no good, POS, douchebag,scumbag, deadbeat , fuck up, cock sucking, cousin fucking, dad.”

So do you guys live together??? He is just out and about like its no big thing?? I would leave if you're able to......

That's dumb, my SO doesn't go out...for that reason, I can have her any day.

What's CP, btw?

Oh my dearie, not again.............whats with that there leash I told you about last time????????? Did he break it up, I'd be buying him those undershorts with the Tracking Device attached inside it - in the waistband part - he'd never know he's wearing it - and YOU would know exactly where the hell his drawers are!!! Now, take my advice little one...............look those up on the internet, and order him a pair.........

I would leave him. lol. I don't put up with any BS though, and it sounds like he doesn't respect you.

lol i think you got it with cock knocker that made me giggle sorry..but i agree with his mom...

Quoting Emily Z. & Ellie A.:“ That's dumb, my SO doesn't go out...for that reason, I can have her any day. What's CP, btw?”

Cerebral Palsy

Quoting Kenzie's ♥ Mama:“ lol i think you got it with cock knocker that made me giggle sorry..but i agree with his mom...”

Yeah the word cock knocker makes me giggle too lol.

I'm just so mad! He was being so good and BAM he went from good to douchebag in like a week or so!

Quoting ~36 weeks~:“ Okay, my fuck up of a SO went out last night (whatever didn't really care.) Around 11am I started to ... [snip!] ... And call him whatever you want, he is a no good, POS, douchebag,scumbag, deadbeat , fuck up, cock sucking, cousin fucking, dad.”

sounds like what my dh used to be like, total disregard for me, but leaving him never worked he was always like fine, he even left with his mommy for a whole summer and left me and his daughter to fend for ourselves, we had no money or nothing, but luckily I set him straight, I told him he couldnt afford to be such an asshole, because child support is a bitch and if he came back we had to get married, well to say the least he came back crying about how sorry he was and we got married and since we have gotten married he is the sweetest ever, so I don't know honey but punch him in the teeth that may work because it's bull for you to have to sit there alone and for him to make your son so sad

Quoting cougargagagl:“ Oh my dearie, not again.............whats with that there leash I told you about last time????????? Did ... [snip!] ... his drawers are!!! Now, take my advice little one...............look those up on the internet, and order him a pair.........”

He was doing good. Idk I think hes just an asshole or something. Maybe he's just gay for his cousin! I am so looking up those underwear.

I already told him if I go into labor while he's out I'm NOT calling him, and if he misses it of well, thats his problem not mine!

Quoting Kaylee+Kaelin'sMommy:“ sounds like what my dh used to be like, total disregard for me, but leaving him never worked he was always ... [snip!] ... punch him in the teeth that may work because it's bull for you to have to sit there alone and for him to make your son so sad”

If I did anything I'd rip his balls off  

And we are getting married in August! Thats the thing. It's not like I'm some random whore he knocked up we've been dating for 2 years. We've known eachother for about 3 or 4!

Quoting ~36 weeks~:“ He was doing good. Idk I think hes just an asshole or something. Maybe he's just gay for his cousin! ... [snip!] ... told him if I go into labor while he's out I'm NOT calling him, and if he misses it of well, thats his problem not mine!”

Let me know how much they cost - but damn that man - the best kind of offence is the best Defence. Girl, go knock those balls again - and put a smile on your pretty face. You do not deserve one wrinkle from this loose cannon ball. OK.

Quoting ~36 weeks~:“ If I did anything I'd rip his balls off   And we are getting married in August! Thats the ... [snip!] ... thing. It's not like I'm some random whore he knocked up we've been dating for 2 years. We've known eachother for about 3 or 4!”

I definitely wouldn't consider marriage until he can act like a decent man, and respect you and your family!

Quoting ~36 weeks~:“ Cerebral Palsy”

Ahw I'm sorry, mama. That must be really hard & he's inconsiderate...wow.