Single mommies??

Hello, it's official me and my baby's father are done. I've lost all respect for him as a man, which is sad b/c he's been in my life since I was 15 and everything had been all good up until now. Two days ago i was in the ER ALL DAY and he had the nerve to say he doesnt care and had some girl playing on my phone. I'm kind of sad but then I realized that he can't do anything for me or a child, so i'm not reallu loosing much, but my only thing is how do you ladies do it? How do you handle the stress of pregnancy alone. I get so tired sometimes, I don't mean just physically I mean mentally too...somedays it's just like I'm so weary, I always try to be strong but I'm tired of being strong all the time. I have NO support system...I just feel lost  

Thx 4 reading...had to let some of that out

I'm not a single mom but my husband travels for a living and is gone most of the time. Its hard and lonely but you can do it. I also don't have and friends and only have my mom. It will be hard hun but you can do it. Good luck!

Quoting HaleyLane & Baby Levi:“ I'm not a single mom but my husband travels for a living and is gone most of the time. Its hard and lonely ... [snip!] ... lonely but you can do it. I also don't have and friends and only have my mom. It will be hard hun but you can do it. Good luck!”

Thx

I was single for a good chunk of my pregnancy because my BD isn't ready to grow up. It's really hard at first andyes it it tiring. Just remember you're teaching your child to be strong because you're being strong. I don't know if you're all about God or not, but He's always around to protect you and your baby and He will help you through this. I'm still single and it's hard living alone and taking care of a newborn by myself, but everyday I tell myself that I'm loved because the Lord loves me and He loves you too. Sorry if I'm "preaching" to you.
About your BD, he will figure out what he's missing and that's you and his child. As for you being pregnant, make sure you keep yourself healthy for you and the baby. I'm here to talk if you'd like.

Quoting ♥ Aivan's Mama:“ I was single for a good chunk of my pregnancy because my BD isn't ready to grow up. It's really hard ... [snip!] ... his child. As for you being pregnant, make sure you keep yourself healthy for you and the baby. I'm here to talk if you'd like.”

Thank you, that really helped alot

No problem, mama.

Im a single mom, I have been for a while. I was with my sons father while pregnant but he was never around so it was like I was alone anyway. I thought the world had ended when we split but you know what? It was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. I didnt need him when I always thought that I did. Its hard but you can do it. Its a great feeling having a child. I wish you all the best and if you ever need to talk just pm me.

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I'm a single mama, even though I have a new guy in my life my babies father hasnt seen his daughter in 16 months, nor has any contact, he last seen her when she was five weeks and she is now 17 months, my partner wishes every day he was her father, he treats her like his, so it's good she has some type of father figure.

I just wanted to say, good luck it's hard work BUT IT CAN be done.

Quoting ♥ Aivan's Mama:“ I was single for a good chunk of my pregnancy because my BD isn't ready to grow up. It's really hard ... [snip!] ... his child. As for you being pregnant, make sure you keep yourself healthy for you and the baby. I'm here to talk if you'd like.”

IPT-ed you because your the type of person i want to be.   Now if i could only have the courage to end it. . .

You really dont need him. When I told my BD I was pregnant he told me good luck and I went from my 8th week of my preg until my daughter was 18months before I seen him again. I was sad for my daughter. It was hard not having someone to share everything with. My mom was very supportive tho and always went to my dr appts with me. He grew up and we live together now and are expecting baby #2 in Feb. You cant make someone who you want them to be. They have to want it. If you need any advice or help PM me! I was 17 BTW with my first.

WOW THIS TOPIC HELPS ME OUT TO. CAUSE IM ONLY 17 BUT MY BD DONT EVEN CARE ABOUT ME OR HIS BABY AT ALL. AN IMA HAVE TO GROW UP 4 THE BEST OF MY BABY AN ME. EVEN THOUGH I FEEL SAD I WOULD IF LIKE EVERYTHING DIFFERENT. BUT I GOT CLOSE TO GOD AN IT HELPS ME OUT ALOT. U SHOULD GET CLOSE TO GOD TOO. MAYBE THAT WOULD HELP U. GOOD LUCK... 

Quoting Ashley & Baby T(12 days):“ IPT-ed you because your the type of person i want to be.   Now if i could only have the courage to end it. . .”

Aww, thanks! Are you having trouble with your BD too?

Quoting HuniiB:“ Hello, it's official me and my baby's father are done. I've lost all respect for him as a man, which ... [snip!] ... of being strong all the time. I have NO support system...I just feel lost   Thx 4 reading...had to let some of that out”

good for you girl

Quoting ♥ Aivan's Mama:“ Aww, thanks! Are you having trouble with your BD too?”

yeah. alot. lol.

I'm so single. I know being a single mom is going to be hard but I know I can do it. If you need any help just message me.