re: so im feeling quite hateful

Quoting ♥sheilalynn&hearts:“ Do you know ANYTHING about me?? Do you know what i have gone through in life?? I don't fucking think ... [snip!] ... I don't fucking think so. I haven't had a 'perfect' life sweetie but i don't go around talking about how i HATE god  ”

I don't care what you have been through, when someone is hurting the last thing they need is some self righteous person telling them how they should or shouldn't feel.

Quoting the possible police:“ I don't care what you have been through, when someone is hurting the last thing they need is some self righteous person telling them how they should or shouldn't feel.”

AMEN!

Quoting the possible police:“ I don't care what you have been through, when someone is hurting the last thing they need is some self righteous person telling them how they should or shouldn't feel.”

Dude I wish people understood everyone grieves differently. They think their way is the only way. If we all had the same ways and same brain we wouldn't need psychology!

Quoting the possible police:“ I don't care what you have been through, when someone is hurting the last thing they need is some self righteous person telling them how they should or shouldn't feel.”

 

Your avi is too cute!

Quoting ♥sheilalynn&hearts:“ Do you know ANYTHING about me?? Do you know what i have gone through in life?? I don't fucking think ... [snip!] ... I don't fucking think so. I haven't had a 'perfect' life sweetie but i don't go around talking about how i HATE god  ”

Congrats. You don't have to. If you're so godly you should probably be spreading his "love" and not turning people off of him further with this type of behavior.

i think you have the right to feel how you want to feel, freedom of religion and all that. 

but i am sorry about your son and i hope he gets better soon. and part of your vent to your friend was for her to listen and not judge. you might feel that way now but later you might not feel that way and god would still forgive you. 

thank you all for helping me deal with my super emo moment, i went and held him for a while today and that made me feel a little better. i just woke up in a super bad bad bad mood and just didnt want to deal with life at all.
i mean not even my daughter laughing made me smile. but i am doing better now
i guess it is really my husband being away
my just have having a baby {{hormones}}
my baby being in the nicu and only seeming to digress {{which i know all babys gain weight it just seems like he is never coming home . at the moment and im learning to deal with it.. i guess im lucky couse this is the hardest thing i have had to deal with and i know i will get through this, and every thing will be good again but i have moments where i just really want ot give up and im not going to but every one knows how im feeling right now

and i just want to thank you for dealing with me and helping me...oddly enough baby gaga is one of my main things to help me deal with what im going through right now

I'm glad you are feeling a little better. One thing that people kept telling me when the boys were in the nicu, is that they mature all at once...I kept feeling so discouraged because they'd nipple one day and have a tube feeding the next, it felt like they were going backwards...I expected them to move forward on a linear path. But they were right, it really doesn't work that way. All of the sudden it's like something "clicks" for them, and they start eating all that they need to eat, breathing room air, holding their temps, and suddenly you're rooming in and they go home the next day! I know it's hard to believe that, when you are in it, because it doesn't make sense. But it really did happen that way for us! These are my boys:
I hated the nicu, and I cried when they let me lay them next to each other to take this picture...But now I can't believe they were so tiny!

Do you have a picture of your baby?

Quoting luke and joes moma:“ 6 weeks. and he was a good weight when he was born he was 5 lb 6 oz but he just keeps looseing he ... [snip!] ... a while after he was born but his breathing is ok now, but he just wont eat to gain and im just i dont know im being selfish”

hang in there!! my daughter was also born 6 weeks early at 3lb 9oz....it took her about a week and a half to finally start consistently gaining weight. She also had problems with sleep apnea and had to get caffeine shots up until about 3 days before she went home. I will keep you and your LO in my prayers!! I know the NICU is no fun but your LO is there for a reason and that is the best place for him to be right now.

i know I'm a little late on this post, but I just wanted to say hang in there honey! My LO went from 5'8 to 4'15 in two days and didn't start gaining until like a week later. He had a feeding tube in his nose for almost three weeks. He was alternating his tube feeding with bottle feedings, but he wasn't doing well with that either, so they fed him 2 tube feeds for every one bottle feed. He started doing better and they moved him back to every other. And then one day, he just started eating! He did a total 180 in a matter of hours and all of a sudden we couldn't feed the kid enough!. They told me that usually sometime around the gestational age of 36-37 weeks, its like a switch that goes on and they are ready for the world. So hang in there, he will perk up and do great! And tell 'em all to stfu and deal with it how you deal with it and stay strong for your LO's! Here's a pic of my little man still in the hospital: