Why (vent)
141 postsposted 2nd Jul
do people get pregnant and then say they would rather not be pregnant and they dont like there belly and theyd rather not have a baby or be a mom?
IF YOU DONT WANT TO BE A MOM AN D THE CONSIQUENCES WITH BEING ONE PROTECT YOURSELF!
quoteIF YOU DONT WANT TO BE A MOM AN D THE CONSIQUENCES WITH BEING ONE PROTECT YOURSELF!
I live in San Diego, California
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2468 postsposted 2nd Jul
Quoting Amanda & Ava: do people get pregnant and then say they would rather not be pregnant and they dont like there belly ... [snip!] ... theyd rather not have a baby or be a mom? IF YOU DONT WANT TO BE A MOM AN D THE CONSIQUENCES WITH BEING ONE PROTECT YOURSELF!
Maybe because the women are nervous?
I have 1 child & live in Oklahoma
2209 postsposted 2nd Jul
i would have rather not been pregnant when i was and didnt really like my belly or want to be a mom yet. but i did protect myself and i wouldnt change the outcome for anything
quoteI have 1 child & live in Greeneville, Tennessee
7088 postsposted 2nd Jul
Well -- some people get pregnant and don't like pregnancy. They are entitled to that.
Some people don't plan on getting pregnant -- most adapt if they decide to continue with the pregnancy.
What is this coming from/leading to?
quoteSome people don't plan on getting pregnant -- most adapt if they decide to continue with the pregnancy.
What is this coming from/leading to?
I have 1 child & live in South Africa
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13188 postsposted 2nd Jul
there are stupid people in the world, that's why....
quoteI have 2 kids & live in Sacramento, California
20855 postsposted 2nd Jul
Quoting Ali*24: Well -- some people get pregnant and don't like pregnancy. They are entitled to that. Some people don't ... [snip!] ... plan on getting pregnant -- most adapt if they decide to continue with the pregnancy. What is this coming from/leading to?
amen
I have 1 child & live in Michigan
posted 2nd Jul
Quoting Ali*24: Well -- some people get pregnant and don't like pregnancy. They are entitled to that. Some people don't ... [snip!] ... plan on getting pregnant -- most adapt if they decide to continue with the pregnancy. What is this coming from/leading to?I'll be the first to say that pregnancy isn't FUN to me. hahah
I have 1 child & live in Oklahoma
8340 postsposted 2nd Jul
people take GREAT things for granted and are selfish
quoteI have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Edmonton, Alberta
11392 postsposted 2nd Jul
some women don't like the look of themselves pregnant, it doesnt mean that they dont love their child once its born, they just don't like how they look, or some moms are scared they are going to screw their kids up for life so they are afraid of being a mom, there are lots of reasons people think what they think, it doenst make it wrong IMO, we are all entitled to our own opinions.
quoteI'm TTC since August '09, have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Taylor, Michigan
posted 2nd Jul
Quoting Monica♥ツ: Ok. Where are you reading this?
theres a few people im reading this off of but thats not why i wrote it. my sister in law is due to have a csection july 7th and so that makes her roughly 37 or 38 weeks and she doesnt even look like shes pregnant and she complains because she gained a whole 15 pounds! and it pisses me off because she has 3 kids and she doesnt even take care of them me and my hubby do just about everything for them. and what ever we dont do my bro does since there his kids but he cant be there every minute of the day because he works 6 days a week. but she walks around saying i hate my belly and stuff like that and it really pisses me off
I live in San Diego, California
posted 2nd Jul
Quoting .:|:Aspen's Mommy:|:.: people take GREAT things for granted and are selfish
It isn't always about selfish. People can vent just like the OP did. There were times in my pregnancy that things weren't all pregnancy glow and baby flutters and I definitely didn't enjoy it. There are times in motherhood where my baby drives me absolutely nuts. I would never say that I wish I didn't have this experience but some people would just as a way to vent.
I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 2nd Jul
Quoting Monica♥ツ: It isn't always about selfish. People can vent just like the OP did. There were times in my pregnancy ... [snip!] ... me absolutely nuts. I would never say that I wish I didn't have this experience but some people would just as a way to vent.
I have 1 child & live in Oklahoma
