Im upset with my sister. she pissed me off.. vent

Im feeling sad and down at the same time. I had a big arguement thru text with my sister,how she can tell me my man aint never going to change but i couldnt tell her the same thing mind you at least mines is a fulltime dad, helps me with our kids and is always home with us and is not smoking weed nor hanging out in the streets till the next day or whatever like hers, how she has the nerves to tell me i swear we have the perfect relationship obviously she must had been thinking that to say that and thatshe does for herselfand forher kidsand doesnt need a man to do for her or her kids. i told her you dont do for yourself you are living off the system and have all your kids in ssi you are really a leech and shes like im independent i said if you was independent you would be working hard for what you got but no us taxpayers have you living the way you are so no you not independent and how she said she can say other things to hurt me but she aint. but she said alot in other words to hurt me as is but is ok. i told her to pretend im dead and ill do the same .. im tired of her constant attitudes whenever she wants with me all bc shes never in good terms with her kids father and they are always fighting and cant be like me and my kids father. sorry for any wrong wording

hate is such a strong word

If her kids r on SSI they must have a diablity/something medicaly wrong with them not everyone gets that...my best friends lil boy is on it but she is not livin off of it its cause he has medical probs,but other words hate is a strong word yes,and maybe she is just takinher flustarion of her man out on you i would jus ignore it and not let it bother me she will get over it soon enough

Quoting +LoViN mY pEeKaH+:“ hate is such a strong word”

You know what i mean.. im so mad

Quoting +LoViN mY pEeKaH+:“ hate is such a strong word”

agreed! I'm sorry you and your sister are on the outs OP. My sister and i don't get along well either. My sister is 2 years older than i am, so i think that has to do with it, she can't see me as a grown woman with a husband and2 children, she sees me as alittle girl playing house. Its tough sometimes, but we get through it becuase we love each other, and always will no matter what.

dont say you 'hate' your sibling.

my brother and i had a falling out a few months back and is THE HARDEST thing ever, but i would never say i hated him.

Quoting Meredith and Trey:“ If her kids r on SSI they must have a diablity/something medicaly wrong with them not everyone gets that...my ... [snip!] ... just takinher flustarion of her man out on you i would jus ignore it and not let it bother me she will get over it soon enough”

Well im sorry to say. her kids are doing fine. just one is adhd thats all and is funny how her 3 kids needs ssi nooo thats leeching. shes already talking about putting her youngest in ssi too all because he gets asthma once or twice and she gets ssi too and shes a young 24 yr old intelligent young girl i dont really think she need it .

Quoting 2 blessings:“ Well im sorry to say. her kids are doing fine. just one is adhd thats all and is funny how her 3 kids ... [snip!] ... asthma once or twice and she gets ssi too and shes a young 24 yr old intelligent young girl i dont really think she need it .”

well then she has to be lien and screwin the system somehow they dont give just n e one ssi...was not tryn to upset you i was just sayin...but something is goin on for her to be gettn that

I feel deep inside me shes jealous of me because i been with my kids father 7 yrs have the same father for both of my kids. she doesnt and my man and i are always together although we do have our spats but hes always with me and the kids and she sees how hes caring towards the kids and is always running with them n me to the doctor or whatever and since she dont have that she has to do it alone shes jealous. and plus i can hold a job and she doesnt cause she wants to tell the boss how to do a job.

Quoting Meredith and Trey:“ well then she has to be lien and screwin the system somehow they dont give just n e one ssi...was not tryn to upset you i was just sayin...but something is goin on for her to be gettn that”

well she supposely went to see a psychiatric for her behavior and was going every week even taking the meds ( but then flushing them down the toilet)until she got her ssi she stopped going. shes abusing the system plain n simple. some people know how to manipulate the system and get what they want she does. she even told me to get an apartment and then quit my job and she will help me with welfare and have them pay some of my rent and so on i said no im ok, ill stay living in hospital grounds till i get called from an apt
i live on hospital grounds because i work ina hospital