re: Would CPS step in??

Quoting onetwothreefour:“ So he wants to be in a relationship with you AND someone else? Unless you're bisexual and want to be involved in a 3way relationship, you and your SO might be a little bit on the incompatible side.”

I am 100% not bisexual. I even told the girl he wants the relationship with his plan and we both agreed that it was fucked up and we would never go for it.

He says he wants this multiple relationship because it's a part of who he is and he will never be happy with just one person, he waited until I was pregnant with our second child to tell me this part of him. He isn't the person I thought I knew.

Quoting Cassie (Team Pink x's2):“ I am 100% not bisexual. I even told the girl he wants the relationship with his plan and we both agreed ... [snip!] ... person, he waited until I was pregnant with our second child to tell me this part of him. He isn't the person I thought I knew.”

Tell him you're okay with it as long as you get to have another boyfriend live with you. See how he likes that idea.

Quoting onetwothreefour:“ Tell him you're okay with it as long as you get to have another boyfriend live with you. See how he likes that idea.”

He doesn't care. He thinks it's perfectly okay and normal for people to have multiple boyfriends/girlfriends.

There would be no legal way to prove it unless they were married.
Adrian's kids have 2 mommies and one daddy. (me their mom and Adrian.) The only difference is we are married.
Also if you really think about it if you include Christian's Mom she still isn't divorced and has a boyfriend, so that technically give Christian 3 dads (his legal dad, biological dad, and the boyfriend.)
I hope I got what you were asking.

Quoting Alyssamg:“ There would be no legal way to prove it unless they were married. Adrian's kids have 2 mommies and one ... [snip!] ... that technically give Christian 3 dads (his legal dad, biological dad, and the boyfriend.) I hope I got what you were asking.”

I meant two women and one guy living together in the same house being in a relationship.

Quoting Cassie (Team Pink x's2):“ He doesn't care. He thinks it's perfectly okay and normal for people to have multiple boyfriends/girlfriends.”

I agree with your boyfriend, it is perfectly okay. That is, if everyone in the relationship agrees. Agrees on something important that he neglected to tell you before giving you children.

Sounds to me like he just wants to live out his fantasies with people that do not share them.

He should have thught of that sooner.

Honestly, I don't think you should plan on having much of a fulfilling future with someone with views so opposite of your own.

Quoting Alyssamg:“ There would be no legal way to prove it unless they were married. Adrian's kids have 2 mommies and one ... [snip!] ... that technically give Christian 3 dads (his legal dad, biological dad, and the boyfriend.) I hope I got what you were asking.”

I think she is referring to them all living under the same roof.

Quoting Cassie (Team Pink x's2):“ I meant two women and one guy living together in the same house being in a relationship.”

Oh.. I thought I missed the point. I didn't think you would ask what I though. hehe...

No I think that is a problem, but there would still be no way to prove it.

personally i think its none of cps' business what a parent does with their personal/sex life unless its harming the children.

some mormans still take multiple wives, and i think it should be legal, seperation of church and state. ftw!

Quoting DownSouthMamaof3 (BBM):“ I think she is referring to them all living under the same roof.”

I misunderstood her...

Quoting onetwothreefour:“ I agree with your boyfriend, it is perfectly okay. That is, if everyone in the relationship agrees. ... [snip!] ... Honestly, I don't think you should plan on having much of a fulfilling future with someone with views so opposite of your own.”

I find it real hard to beleive that any woman could share their man under the same roof!
I'm too selfish 

Quoting DownSouthMamaof3 (BBM):“ I find it real hard to beleive that any woman could share their man under the same roof! I'm too selfish ”

Me too. I like my man to myself. I don't even like being around family sometimes cause they distract us... hehe. I am very selfish! I have to get over that before my daughter gets here..

Quoting onetwothreefour:“ I agree with your boyfriend, it is perfectly okay. That is, if everyone in the relationship agrees. ... [snip!] ... Honestly, I don't think you should plan on having much of a fulfilling future with someone with views so opposite of your own.”

I don't care what other people do, it's none of my business.

But yes, he knew this before we even MET he says, and he waited until now to tell me. Not only that, but he tried to manipulate me to talk to his ex girlfriend and be friends with her with the intentions of us falling in love and all living together. He knows
a. I'm not bisexual
b. I think it's wrong to have multiple partners
c. SHE pretty much feels the same as me.

I think he has mental problems. He thinks magically everyone will just all fall in love and live happily ever after and be okay.

He thinks I should be willing to change a STRONG moral belief and pretty much my life's dream of what I wanted out of a family for him.

He doesn't get that a relationship isn't just about HIM and his fucked up fantasies.. I am really trying to figure out if I can stay with him after this.

I asked him if he would be happy living our life together with just US, and if not, I couldn't be with him.. he said he'd have to think about that.

Quoting Cassie (Team Pink x's2):“ I am 100% not bisexual. I even told the girl he wants the relationship with his plan and we both agreed ... [snip!] ... person, he waited until I was pregnant with our second child to tell me this part of him. He isn't the person I thought I knew.”

I'm sorry he's putting you through this! You seriously shouldn't have to deal with a guy like that......he's being a selfish ass if ya ask me

Quoting Alyssamg:“ Me too. I like my man to myself. I don't even like being around family sometimes cause they distract us... hehe. I am very selfish! I have to get over that before my daughter gets here..”

You will.