re: Would CPS step in??

Quoting ♥ they are my life:“ Nope. In fact there was a threesome relationship. These people lived in the same house. 1 guy and 2 girls. ... [snip!] ... and one of the people told her to go masturbate she would feel better after it. They were on Oprah or Dr. Phil I believe.”

That is Fucking Disgusting!

Quoting DownSouthMamaof3 (BBM):“ What's wrong with one daddy and two mommies? More love for the child.”

I just personally find it wrong based on how I feel about relationships and raising children. I think having a situation where the parents are split up and have other partners is okay, but having one parent have two girlfriends at the same time.. I wouldn't want my children living like that.

Quoting no longer empty arms:“ That is Fucking Disgusting!”

 
What good morales they are teaching their children 

So it would be better for the kiddos to be in foster care or God only knows where than to have more than just a mommy and daddy to love them?

Quoting Cassie (Team Pink x's2):“ I lost that argument.. oh well. I still think it's messed up big time.”

There are plenty of things I feel are messed up, but it is no reason to take the kids if they are cared for.

Quoting Cassie (Team Pink x's2):“ I just personally find it wrong based on how I feel about relationships and raising children. I think ... [snip!] ... partners is okay, but having one parent have two girlfriends at the same time.. I wouldn't want my children living like that.”

I wouldn't either cause it's not setting a good example, but to each it's own.

I don't get it, is your SO in a relationship with you AND someone else? If so, are you okay with that?

Regardless, it would be ridiculous if CPS took your kids away because of your choice in partners.

Quoting ♥ they are my life:“ Nope. In fact there was a threesome relationship. These people lived in the same house. 1 guy and 2 girls. ... [snip!] ... and one of the people told her to go masturbate she would feel better after it. They were on Oprah or Dr. Phil I believe.”

Wow! But I guess its the same as the men who marry and have all those wives and kids that you see those families on some shows also..

CPS doesn't give a shit what kind of sexual relationships the parents are involved in. All they care about is if the kids are being cared for properly.

Quoting onetwothreefour:“ I don't get it, is your SO in a relationship with you AND someone else? If so, are you okay with that? ... [snip!] ... so, are you okay with that? Regardless, it would be ridiculous if CPS took your kids away because of your choice in partners.”

No, but that's what he wants to happen. I'll never agree to it, but in his mind that's what he wants to happen.

I told him I would never raise my children in that craziness and that CPS would probably take them away if they knew. I guess the last part isn't true though.

As long as the kids are being properly cared for & not abused or neglected they won't step in & do anything. The only thing that CPS cares about is if the kids are being taken care of & not being abused or neglected in any way

Quoting Höllenengel♥:“ CPS doesn't give a shit what kind of sexual relationships the parents are involved in. All they care about is if the kids are being cared for properly.”

If CPS stepped in for these cases there would be so many kids without parents!

Quoting ღAshleyღ:“ As long as the kids are being properly cared for & not abused or neglected they won't step in & ... [snip!] ... The only thing that CPS cares about is if the kids are being taken care of & not being abused or neglected in any way”

That does make a lot more sense, I wouldn't think it was necessarily a good thing for CPS to step in based on parents' relationship (no matter how messed up it is).

Quoting Cassie (Team Pink x's2):“ No, but that's what he wants to happen. I'll never agree to it, but in his mind that's what he wants ... [snip!] ... my children in that craziness and that CPS would probably take them away if they knew. I guess the last part isn't true though.”

what an asshole.

Quoting Cassie (Team Pink x's2):“ No, but that's what he wants to happen. I'll never agree to it, but in his mind that's what he wants ... [snip!] ... my children in that craziness and that CPS would probably take them away if they knew. I guess the last part isn't true though.”

So he wants to be in a relationship with you AND someone else?

Unless you're bisexual and want to be involved in a 3way relationship, you and your SO might be a little bit on the incompatible side.