re: navy..

Quoting sarcasm:“ thank you so much.....everyone is telling me that they don't know what I'm asking and to be honest I ... [snip!] ... all I know is that I'm going to be a stay at home mom for a while...so if anything else comes up I will totally ask you!..llol”

Your welcome! It looks like you're getting some good advice, I know its all confusing right now, but bear with it and everything will work itself out, one way or another! You just take care of yourself and that baby. And since you're joining "our navy family", always remember that the only consistent thing in the navy is change, so the information that you get today could change by tomorrow!! Take care and good luck! Feel free to PM me with any other questions that you have and I will do my best to answer them!