Other Girls (vent)

I don't care if my boyfriend is friends with girls.
I don't care if he hangs out with girls.
I don't care if he talks to girls.
I care, if she's an easy slutbag with no morals, that he fucked before.

Does this sound completely unreasonable? I know it was wrong of me to snoop my boyfriends facebook, which is why I don't want to make a big deal about it to him. Recently they've been talking quite a bit, and at times it almost seems flirty... but I can't really tell because I don't know what kind of friends they are. It still REALLY bothers me though, and he knows I don't want him having a relationship with her. Our relationship is really rocky right now, and although I don't have a reason not to trust him, I still feel insecure because of how rocky we are. I'm trying not to let it get to me, but when I read about their plans to hang out I can't help but to feel betrayed in a way...

I don't know if that made much sense, my thoughts are kind of jumbled.

...Just venting

Does he know that you feel that way? If so he should respect your wishes.

Doesn't matter if you were looking at his facebook or not. I would say something to him about it. That's just not right.

why dont you ask him to do something with you the day they have plans. he shouldnt be hanging around a girl hes fucked before i would put my foot down and tell him thats not acceptable. would he want you hanging around i guy you have fucked before? probably not. but if hes gonna stray hes gonna stray. and then its better if you arent together. but you need to talk to him and tell him that it hurts you that hes spending time with this girl and not you

If you are giving him the oppurtunity to just be friends with these females you are opening doors to other things.
IMO sometimes the ones you think are innocent are usually the most trashy!
Most men when given an inch will take a mile!

Quoting Frank-BGAWFC:“ Does he know that you feel that way? If so he should respect your wishes.”

He does know, but all he says is "we've been friends forever and I fucked her like 5 years ago..." I was friends with this girl 5 years ago as well, before she became a skanky hoe, and now I feel uncomfortable with them hanging out or even talking. I think it sounds understandable but it must be a girl thing, lol

I've got this sammmmme situation.

Men are all the same. Douchebags.

im glad im the only woman my husband has ever been with <3

Quoting ♥Evan's Mommy♥:“ Doesn't matter if you were looking at his facebook or not. I would say something to him about it. That's just not right.”

Ya, I never told him I read anything... I just said, "you two seem to talk a lot and I don't want you hanging out with her."

I don't know if he thinks I snooped or not, but he deleted all the messages from her, I still found them in the deleted section though.

Quoting mamaliz [TEAM BLUE]:“ why dont you ask him to do something with you the day they have plans. he shouldnt be hanging around ... [snip!] ... arent together. but you need to talk to him and tell him that it hurts you that hes spending time with this girl and not you”

It especially hurts because we don't get a lot of time together, since our daughter was born. Yet he always seems to make time for his friends  

Good idea, or I'll ask him if I can go with him haha

Quoting My Hungry Hippo:“ Ya, I never told him I read anything... I just said, "you two seem to talk a lot and I don't want you ... [snip!] ... know if he thinks I snooped or not, but he deleted all the messages from her, I still found them in the deleted section though.”

don't you love how dumb boys are... if you are going to try to be sneaky about it be thorough. Yeah I would definitely think something about it if he was trying to delete her messages.

Quoting My Hungry Hippo:“ He does know, but all he says is "we've been friends forever and I fucked her like 5 years ago..." I ... [snip!] ... I feel uncomfortable with them hanging out or even talking. I think it sounds understandable but it must be a girl thing, lol”

Yes but he should respect your wishes. Tell him regardless of what he says you aren't comfotable. Choose the friendship with a slut or his family. It should be easy.

Quoting ♥Evan's Mommy♥:“ don't you love how dumb boys are... if you are going to try to be sneaky about it be thorough. Yeah I would definitely think something about it if he was trying to delete her messages.”

Omg, he is the WORST at being sneaky. I always find out the most random things, lol.

Quoting Frank-BGAWFC:“ Yes but he should respect your wishes. Tell him regardless of what he says you aren't comfotable. Choose the friendship with a slut or his family. It should be easy.”

It should be easy, lol.
I talked with him about 3 days ago, and finally agreed he won't hang out with her or talk to her, and so far he hasn't  

Has he told you about their plans to hang out? That is very disrespectful toyou that he is even talking to that chick and even more if they plan to hang out. If he is talking to her behind your backit's because he has something to hide. He shouldn't be talking to someone he has been sexually involved with in the first place.