Quoting ♥ E's Mommy:“ I honestly think you should just leave it alone at this point. A 3 year old is going to have so much ... [snip!] ... much pain from it It's not hard to take care of an uncirc'd penis, just push the skin back and clean. Google it. Seriously.”
What would you want to hear if you were going toget your labia snipped at age 3?I dont think he could understand why you were doing it
My husband is circ and we will not circ our son. We will just teach him how to care for it properly and if it ever gets awkward or he asks, we will just say because Daddy had surgery when he was little.
ETA:I didnt mean for it to sound catty, I really meant it to be an honest question, think about what you would want to hear if you were in his shoes.
I suggest if she is getting it done to let him know that it is a normal thing boys have done when they are little and it is not because he was being bad, or because there was something wrong with him, just a procedure that has to be done.