Bumming:[

i got to talk to my husband today, and he messed up on something where his gun was suppose to be on top of his bed and not under or something gay like that and his D.S. smoked the platoon about it and now all the guys hate him and wanna beat him up or something.... Im just feelin so bad for him... He cried over the phone about it and he never cries. I think i have heard him cry twice. I cant imagine how he feels, being so home sick and now not even feelin comfortable there....

anyways the worst part is the D.S. said now when he comes for baby he will HAVE to restart. which bums me cause that delay's his graduation, his one close friend he has in his platoon and most of alll his orders change. Meaning we might not get to live in hawaii... =[ and he will have to miss more of our daughter's life. I really need him here for the birth but thats alot to sacrafice....he wants to come cause he is so home sick but im just not sureDo you guys think he should stay or come home?

I am completley lost
He needs to stay
he is military now, you need to get used to doing things alone
Hard to adjust, but you will

Quoting Onalee's Mommmy♥:“ i got to talk to my husband today, and he messed up on something where his gun was suppose to be on top ... [snip!] ... to sacrafice....he wants to come cause he is so home sick but im just not sureDo you guys think he should stay or come home?”

He's in Basic?....
and how far along would he have gotten in it by the time she is due????
because if he has a few weeks left of it.....i would say sacrifice

he needs to stay. video tape it if he really wants to see it. you'll have to learn to start depending on family and friends for most of your support now. military wives have to sacrafice a lot. good luck mama

What branch is he training for? He has to stay now! just write him lots of letters,they help. he will screw up way more than once in his military career and its always mass punishment.

Quoting Trophy Wife:“ I am completley lost He needs to stay he is military now, you need to get used to doing things alone Hard to adjust, but you will”

That is putting it bluntly, but she's right. Everything changes now that he signed up.

And it really depends on how far into it he'll be when you deliver. Will anyone else be there with you if he doesn't come?

Quoting marynicole.[[teampink]]:“ That is putting it bluntly, but she's right. Everything changes now that he signed up. And it really ... [snip!] ... up. And it really depends on how far into it he'll be when you deliver. Will anyone else be there with you if he doesn't come?”

I don't sugarcoat stuff

Quoting April &{{Kaycee♥}}:“ He's in Basic?.... and how far along would he have gotten in it by the time she is due???? because if he has a few weeks left of it.....i would say sacrifice”

he will have about a month and half but he only has to restart3 weeks behind him so i dont think its that bad... but then again we get him for a few days and his graduation is prolonged 3 weeks

Quoting Onalee's Mommmy♥:“ he will have about a month and half but he only has to restart3 weeks behind him so i dont think its that bad... but then again we get him for a few days and his graduation is prolonged 3 weeks”

so what are you going to when he deploys?

you can't restart a deployment
soldiers like your husband is what is making the army go to shit
He signed up for the commitment, put on your big girl panties and deal with it

Quoting Trophy Wife:“ I am completley lost He needs to stay he is military now, you need to get used to doing things alone Hard to adjust, but you will”

its just he lost the twins and i think its really important that he is there... I know he is in he army and im pretty sure i can do it on my own i just want to see tears of joy run down his face this time instead of teas of pain.
I think ona normal curcumstance i would make him stay there... but in this case im not sure

Quoting Onalee's Mommmy♥:“ its just he lost the twins and i think its really important that he is there... I know he is in he ... [snip!] ... this time instead of teas of pain. I think ona normal curcumstance i would make him stay there... but in this case im not sure”

so many soldiers miss out on the birth of their children
he should have waited tyo join until after the baby was born
My husband had to work while I was on my death bed with our daughter in the nicu. If the military wanted you to have a family, they would have issued you one.

Quoting Trophy Wife:“ so what are you going to when he deploys? you can't restart a deployment soldiers like your husband ... [snip!] ... husband is what is making the army go to shit He signed up for the commitment, put on your big girl panties and deal with it”

agree. I know some of the marines in my husbands company call their mom when they feel like they are being 'picked on' and so their mom's call and complain. PATHETIC.

Quoting Onalee's Mommmy♥:“ he will have about a month and half but he only has to restart3 weeks behind him so i dont think its that bad... but then again we get him for a few days and his graduation is prolonged 3 weeks”

well thats not too bad.....i just asked my husband
if he would have restarted
and he said yes........plus the last three weeks is just the ftx and graduation preparation

i am not trying to be rude but you are just going to have to get over it..seriously...it is the military...and especially if you fuck up, they will change things in the drop of a dime..that is why they do it..to motivate you to do your freaking job because when you are out there for real, and not in basic..you can't fuck up...there are no redoes..

Quoting A.M.F's wife:“ agree. I know some of the marines in my husbands company call their mom when they feel like they are being 'picked on' and so their mom's call and complain. PATHETIC.”

lol awww mommy called to talk to the DI's