Is it just the messed up truth?

Are teenage moms just bound to stop having "regular" friends? I feel like all my friends that don't have kids or who aren't pregnant are just disappearing.   They just can't seem to understand my 5 month old son can't go to the beach or go to the movies & it sucks.

But on the bright side, I find out if my godbaby is a girl or boy on Wednesday!  

It isnt only teen moms.....

it's not just teenage moms. I'm 24, and a lot of my "regular" friend disappeared when I had my daughter. However, they were replaced by friends that do have kids, and we've all grown very close. It's nice to have friends to share stories with, and they understand.

Mine disappeared before he was born even.

Yeah, it's not just teen moms its all moms really.. It is the shitty truth though lol.

Quoting Due with #2 in 01-2010:“ It isnt only teen moms.....”

isn't that the truth!

Quoting Due with #2 in 01-2010:“ It isnt only teen moms.....”

    

Yup, it's not just teen moms. My only girlfriends now are other moms.

yea my friends ditched me except for the ones that have kids. they just wanted to go out and party and dont really call anymore. sucks but you learn who your true friends are.

Quoting • Frugal •:“ it's not just teenage moms. I'm 24, and a lot of my "regular" friend disappeared when I had my daughter. ... [snip!] ... that do have kids, and we've all grown very close. It's nice to have friends to share stories with, and they understand.”

Yeah, well it sucks but I can already tell my mommy friends are ALOT closer to me, even now. We just don't have time for the drama anymore.

Quoting Due with #2 in 01-2010:“ It isnt only teen moms.....”

Damn.

Quoting • Frugal •:“ it's not just teenage moms. I'm 24, and a lot of my "regular" friend disappeared when I had my daughter. ... [snip!] ... that do have kids, and we've all grown very close. It's nice to have friends to share stories with, and they understand.”

I can see that - I am pregnant and already some of my friends seem to be leaving me out of things they do - just because I can't get loaded doesn't mean I don't want to hang out anymore!  
My friends WITH children are checking up on me and wanting to get together, so that is good at least...I can't wait until my spinster childless friends get pregnant... 

Quoting Miranda [Proud Mommy!]:“ Yeah, well it sucks but I can already tell my mommy friends are ALOT closer to me, even now. We just don't have time for the drama anymore.”

It does suck. However, as my old friends are starting to have kids, they are starting to come around again. It's kind of funny. Call me a bitch, but I usually just blow them off. They weren't there for me when I needed them, and I don't like part-time friends.

Quoting Due with #2 in 01-2010:“ It isnt only teen moms.....”

Agreed. It's a part of mommy hood. Sorry.

Quoting • Frugal •:“ It does suck. However, as my old friends are starting to have kids, they are starting to come around ... [snip!] ... me a bitch, but I usually just blow them off. They weren't there for me when I needed them, and I don't like part-time friends.”

totally