re: Fuckin' Love Your Body!!!!

Quoting MommyG[OHT OG]:“ RIGHT ON, MAMA! I recently said "fuck this attitude" and decided to love myself and my body for what ... [snip!] ... who swears up and down I'm sexy! I feel sexy now! lmao! I love my eyes, that's what snagged my man.. and my sense of humor!”

Thats just one of the reasons I love my man... It didnt matter how huge I got with my first pregnancy last year, or what I looked like for the three months I was trying to lose my pp weight, or how big I am getting now with this pregnancy my man always tells me how hot and sexy I am and I love him and I am thankful for that. I have such a shitty self-esteem. lol

I love my blue eyes & my new curvy body my two babies are giving me lol. I hated my hips after I had my daughter, but now I am embracing them as my wonderful curvy child-bearing hips lol. I was a stick before my first pregnancy!

Quoting KylieMelaine&JohnDylan:“   I am the president of the itty bitty titty comity.”

I was Vice President... until pregnancy snuck up on me.  

Quoting Lola's madre:“ I was Vice President... until pregnancy snuck up on me.  ”

I had Cs during my pregnancy and while nursing but 2 weeks after my son was weaned I was back at As! I enjoyed having big squishy milk boobs, but I'm glad I'm back to my small, non moving, non bra required boobies!

Quoting Maddies Momz Betches:“ Well, Ill start for you...you have a peaceful angelic face and pouty lips! I do too..bash on myself...its sick...we all bond over that...self hate.”

  Thank you.

I really just feel like shit about myself in general. I think it might be something to do with my unmediacted bi-polar. I cycle from manic to depressed SO fast. Makes my head spin. I AM on the track to having it treated though, so I bet that will make a big difference on how I see myself.  

For sure! Can you understand why men are sick and tired of the complaints? I feel so badly for the hell Ive put Paul through...but all the while 60 lbs heavier while pregnant...I was told I was beautiful and "not that big at all"...even as a preggo monster! That is LOVE!

Quoting BaDinkyDonk:“   Thank you. I really just feel like shit about myself in general. I think it might be ... [snip!] ... my head spin. I AM on the track to having it treated though, so I bet that will make a big difference on how I see myself.  ”

Im similarly in the same boat as for being unmedicated...and it will greatly help you with how you see yourself! Some small things to improve your mood in the mean time...keep the house bright...windows open, play happy music in the background all day long.. Make it a priority to do something nice for yourself. Even if its a clear coat of polish on your nails or seeing how many push ups you can do....it will make you feel good...and you deserve it. You said yourself you care for others intensely...why dont you deserve a little love?

Quoting Mansey's Human Paci:“ Thank God for wonderful husbands who love our bodies and can't get enough of us! My husband is exactly the same way!”

    

This is an awesome thread . . but gah , so much easier said than done. I really have been trying to work on this though . . and do little things for myself when I have the time. Just keeping up with yourself . . like doing your toe nails , your eyebrows , getting your hair trimmed when it needs it . . all those little things make me feel SO much better.

Quoting AshleyRaine:“ This is an awesome thread . . but gah , so much easier said than done. I really have been trying to work ... [snip!] ... toe nails , your eyebrows , getting your hair trimmed when it needs it . . all those little things make me feel SO much better.”

you know...easier said than done..while i understand...when enough is enough, you have no choice anymore but to love yourself.

its like setting a schedule for a baby...you may be tired, but you HAVE TO wake your baby up...it is not an option. loving yourself is similar...you just do it. It may be total bullshit at first but you fake it til you make it. Mind over matter. I know my mind is stronger than my body or my fears. I am far more afraid to be self satisfied than I am of being fat/ugly/unliked.

I use post its like theyre going out of style....I post on my mirror...in magazines...in my purse. I am beautiful...I am already in control...I am smart. I also have a wake up on my phone that says "happiness is a choice"...i dont even have to think about it...my phone reminds me the day goes how i chose it to.
Also, declutter your life of negative...if you have a pair of size 2s taunting you for the last year...fucking ditch em. Rid yourself of all media magazines...if looking at pics of photoshopped ppl that make you feel like shit is a norm...it needs to not be.

Quoting AshleyRaine:“ This is an awesome thread . . but gah , so much easier said than done. I really have been trying to work ... [snip!] ... toe nails , your eyebrows , getting your hair trimmed when it needs it . . all those little things make me feel SO much better.”

I agree with you Mama,when I was experiencing PPD getting up and brushing my hair and putting on a cute outfit and a little bit of makeup made my days a little bit more bearable!

I have big beautiful almond shaped eyes,and abig ghetto booty that drives my hubby crazy. I alsohave the ability to put a smile on anyone's face with my off the wall sense of humor

Rock on girl!   Love that you posted this. I frequently browse the WL & F forum because I'm on my mission to lose weight and tone up and most of the posts are about women hating their body! I feel like if you are upset about your weight then do something about it. Sitting and complaining doesn't make it better.

I love my eyes, lips, the hourglass shape of my body, and my booty.

this is fucking hard!
i have a enormous list of things i DONT like.
tiny list of likes.
i like my eyes i suppose.. minus the blonde eye lashes.. but w/ make up on i DO like them! lol
hm... i like my arms now, only b/c they're fucking cut from kaleb.... lol i look like a beast.. til you get to the saggies.
its just hard b/c the things i really did like are now ruined.
i used to like my boobies... they were perfect! lol and my belly.. i have a long torso and it was defined w/o me ever working out! now my boobs and belly are all ruined, saggy, droopy, marked up.. gross.. like i have to find soemthing ELSE to like.. thats hard when i was OK w/ myself before i have to start all over.. and its just really hard when everything you used to like is hard on the eyes now.

This is SO difficult...You can name 50 things you hate about yourself right away, but you actually have to THINK about what you like about yourself!! its crazy isnt it??

Well...I love my curves- And I am embracing my curves by belly dancing- And now that I am belly dancing, I actually feel beautiful for once in my life....It is an amazing feeling. And I LOVE my stretch marks- I know most women say they are gross, but I love them- They are a souvenir from the beautiful princess I carried inside of me for 8.5 months- She is my entire world- And these stretch marks will ALWAYS show the sacrifices I made for her- My body& weight included- And I am damn proud of it too!! She is gorgeous, and she has left her beautiful marks on me- and I couldnt be prouder of them.  

Quoting Maddies Momz Betches:“ I regularly check the Weightloss and Fitness threads...But lately every other post I see is so saddening. ... [snip!] ... and laughs often. I have beautiful eyes and strong arms to carry my daughter around with. What do you love about yourself? ”

I have a big heart full of love for everyone but myself I have been working on that!!!
What i love about me… Im funny, sweet, loving, hyper, crazy, amazing mommy, have beautiful eyes, hard working, nice around butty my hunny loves, and look pretty damn good for having a baby! Im way to hard on myself