re: --Official Lesbian/Bi Mommy's Thread--

Quoting JuJuLove:“ The only reason I don't want to do this is that we go to that restaurant like every week, and if she ... [snip!] ... so I was thinking of maybe suggesting a playdate? That way it would be platonic but I'd get her out of the work environment...”

Women go out for drinks all the time. Don't pose it as if your asking her out. I think a playdate could work, but could also create an environment that doesn't allow for the free-flowing of sexual energy, which could bring the chemistry to a halt. A drink doesn't mean date. To eliminate the weirdness, you could invite a few of your girl friends also, and invite her for a girls night out? That way it seems non-threatening and non-date-like?

Quoting 2 Mommies Expecting:“ Women go out for drinks all the time. Don't pose it as if your asking her out. I think a playdate could ... [snip!] ... a few of your girl friends also, and invite her for a girls night out? That way it seems non-threatening and non-date-like?”

Yeah, that would be a good idea. I'd like to start out as friends first, and if it develops into something more, that's great (I have quite the little crush on her lol). Hopefully after a couple times of hanging out, I'll be able to judge the chemistry better!

Quoting JuJuLove:“ Yeah, that would be a good idea. I'd like to start out as friends first, and if it develops into something ... [snip!] ... quite the little crush on her lol). Hopefully after a couple times of hanging out, I'll be able to judge the chemistry better!”

let us know how it goes! i love being married, but i love the drama and suspense of (other people's) new romance and crushes and all that stuff. sometimes i feel left out, cuz it seems the single girls all talk to each other about single life, and the married kids don't get asked about any of it! *tear*

Quoting 2 Mommies Expecting:“ let us know how it goes! i love being married, but i love the drama and suspense of (other people's) ... [snip!] ... seems the single girls all talk to each other about single life, and the married kids don't get asked about any of it! *tear*”

I will for sure! My situation is sort of weird because I am happily married to a man. He has no problem at all with me dating women, so it sort of feels like I'm half taken, half single lol. If a man asks, I'm taken but if a woman asks, I'm available! It's very odd.

Quoting JuJuLove:“ I will for sure! My situation is sort of weird because I am happily married to a man. He has no problem ... [snip!] ... sort of feels like I'm half taken, half single lol. If a man asks, I'm taken but if a woman asks, I'm available! It's very odd.”

Do you usually tell the women about your husband before or after you first express interest in them?

Quoting 2 Mommies Expecting:“ Do you usually tell the women about your husband before or after you first express interest in them?

I've just started looking for a girl in the past few months, so I haven't really come across that situation yet, but all the girls I dotalk to know about my husband beforehand. That's very important to me because if they are looking for an exclusive relationship, they deserve to know I can't give that to them. I am a verrry honest person, almost to a fault lol.

hey ladies! Just thought I would see who was on.. Ive having such a bad evening...ahhh

Quoting Elise*Nichole:“ hey ladies! Just thought I would see who was on.. Ive having such a bad evening...ahhh”

Aww whats the matter?

Quoting 2 Mommies Expecting:“ Aww whats the matter?”

My boyfriend whatever he is ... being an asshole and he is a dumbass.... trying to argue with me in Walmart about buying a sippy cup and batteries for the camera tmrw to take pics at our sons 1st bday party?! He doesnt know how to walk in Walmart and just stands behind the older lady who is blocking the walking aisle and Im like, "Hello, go around?!" Men I swear are so freaking slow!!!

Quoting Elise*Nichole:“ My boyfriend whatever he is ... being an asshole and he is a dumbass.... trying to argue with me in ... [snip!] ... behind the older lady who is blocking the walking aisle and Im like, "Hello, go around?!" Men I swear are so freaking slow!!!”

haha i feelya... that's why my husband NEVER drives when we go anywhere together!

Quoting JuJuLove:“ I've just started looking for a girl in the past few months, so I haven't really come across that situation ... [snip!] ... an exclusive relationship, they deserve to know I can't give that to them. I am a verrry honest person, almost to a fault lol.”

That's how my husband is.. He's totally into me being with women and I loveit.. It is kind of a weird experience tho trying to deal with that kind of situation..I've only been with one girl and I've known her for years so I haven't had to try to talk to a girl I'm attracted to.. I'd probablybe too shy!

I'm Whitney and I'm (I think) a bisexual mommy soon to be of 2 (and 3 step-kids)... My hubby is ok with me liking girls as long as I don't act on it. He views it as cheating either way, which I respect. So whats up mommas!!!

And to the OP Congrats on your pregnancy!!! I am happy for you two!!!

Quoting .:Stacy Renee:.:“ That's how my husband is.. He's totally into me being with women and I loveit.. It is kind of a weird ... [snip!] ... with one girl and I've known her for years so I haven't had to try to talk to a girl I'm attracted to.. I'd probablybe too shy!”

I haven't even actually been with a girl yet! I've never gone too much farther than making out...It is really tough to find a girl when you're married, which makes sense lol. All the girls I find are straight, wayyy far in the closet, live too far away, or have boyfriends that don't want them exploring...I do not have such great luck in the girl department! lol

I'm Viviana lol & I'm bisexual. Mommy of 1 !  

Quoting .:Stacy Renee:.:“ haha i feelya... that's why my husband NEVER drives when we go anywhere together!”

No we were in Walmart and he doent know how to walk through the damn store and he bitches like a baby girl! Dumbass. That would be his a dumbass!