re: when is teen TTC okay...

Quoting benji'smama [TSB]:“ so because you had a hard life, you've got an excuse to be an idiot. kinda like i didnt bring in my homework, but my mom wrote me a note....  i still bet $$ your a faker

your 19 right when are you going to grow up I'm 18 and i seem to have more common sense than you ( how old is your son? and did you ttc?)

Quoting audra leigh ♥:“ your 19 right when are you going to grow up I'm 18 and i seem to have more common sense than you ( how old is your son? and did you ttc?)”

no way in hell i ttc'd.

accidents are one thing.
intentionally doing something detrimental is another.

my son is 1.

and idk if your the best judge of common sense, lmao.

Quoting benji'smama [TSB]:“ no way in hell i ttc'd. accidents are one thing. intentionally doing something detrimental is another. my son is 1. and idk if your the best judge of common sense, lmao.”

so are you saying that you dont want your son hes one and you still think that its an accident????? okay!!!! are you still with the baby's father? I'm still with mine 4 and half years and still going strong soon to be married!!!!!! or was it a "didnt know what i was getting myself into" sorta thing how about a drunken night one night stand sorta thing???????? jw

Quoting sarcasm:“ I think the only time that a teen should attempt to have a child is if theopportunityto have children ... [snip!] ... she had her daughter and then at 19 her cancer came back and had to have a hysterectomy.. thought I'd but my view out there...”

i was never supposed to be able to have a baby. & look at me now! l0l

Quoting audra leigh ♥:“ so are you saying that you dont want your son hes one and you still think that its an accident????? ... [snip!] ... it a "didnt know what i was getting myself into" sorta thing how about a drunken night one night stand sorta thing???????? jw”

my sons name is ben, not it.

and i considered my actions the accident, certainly not the result.

but its NOT the ideal way for him to grow up.

refer to prior posts containing pertinent information.

and yeah, drunk one night stand. plus all sorts of birth control doo dads.

HOW I got pregnant isn't exactly an issue, nor is my childs father. But Im glad to answer those reguardless...... One night stand that turned into a 2 year relationship. His father is still a very large part of his life, although we amicably split up a few months ago.

And your getting married? so what, half of ALL marriages end in divorce.
That rate is closer to 80% for younger marriages. Getting married dosent change your dismal odds.

Quoting .:mrs.sanders:.:“ i was never supposed to be able to have a baby. & look at me now! l0l”

haha. me too.

i was told i was sterile at like 16 from a doc.  

got pregnant at 18.

on all sorts of BC.

Go figure out that shit.

Quoting benji'smama [TSB]:“ my sons name is ben, not it. and i considered my actions the accident, certainly not the result. ... [snip!] ... end in divorce. That rate is closer to 80% for younger marriages. Getting married dosent change your dismal odds. ”

okay then!

i don't care about percentages! we love each other and will always be together
no matter what we've been though a lot together that has made us closer and closer each day like our son, deaths in the family, issues with my father, planning our wedding, making new friends, we've always been there for each other and will always be there for each other hes had a lot of my first (being i got with him at the age of 13 ) and Ive had a lot of his that's why i chose to have a baby with him we both planned it and he came out perfect that's all i care about i could care less about what happens out in my front yard as long is my son is not in danger i didn't miss out on anything i would rather pay for diapers then go to a concert its not worth it i would rather have my camera catching all the stuff ill forget then not be around to see it we love him and if people have problems with young teenage mothers its the new millennium the new generation the kids that are being born now are the ones changing your diapers when you 80

Quoting audra leigh ♥:“ okay then! i don't care about percentages! we love each other and will always be together no matter ... [snip!] ... its the new millennium the new generation the kids that are being born now are the ones changing your diapers when you 80”

with some of the children walking around now, i hope i die at 60.

but thats just it.

numbers dont lie.

maybe YOUR specific situation isn't horrible

but the majority of teen parents are lousy, and you know that.

TTTC in GENERAL is a shit brained idea.

and truth be told, your definition of adequate parenting and mine could very well be vastly different.

Quoting benji'smama [TSB]:“ Welcome to Reality. Its a Bitch.”

No...whats a bitch is the people putting other people down ( in the same situation) like you.  UGH!!!!

might as well agree to disagree so because there isnt going to be any changes in anybody's opinions. so might as well stop trying to put everybody down and move on.

Quoting divaxXxmommy:“ No...whats a bitch is the people putting other people down ( in the same situation) like you.  UGH!!!!”

Butthurt much?

Quoting benji'smama [TSB]:“ Butthurt much? ”

does my butt hurt much? no not really why!?  

Quoting RKD'sMOMMY*:“ ”

I was talking about you TTCing for your second child at 20/21, not about your first.

Sorry about the confusion!