BF Wants Abortion

So after almost 2 weeks of Mike being excited about the baby and calling it Riley since he's convinced it's a boy, he decides that he's against having the baby now and was trying to convince me to get an abortion. Mike was saying his father would kick him out of the house and that the baby would be raised to be in gangs and get in trouble because of the lack of money to do things and that it would ruin the relationship that we have. All it was was talking out of his ass as an attempt to convince me to get an abortion. I'm disgusted that he could even think about doing that though and he's pissed at me for not even considering it. I'm afraid he's not going to go through with this now and be another guy that leaves his pregnant girlfriend with their baby.

Sounds like your better off without him. What a douche.

Quoting B r i t t a n y !:“ So after almost 2 weeks of Mike being excited about the baby and calling it Riley since he's convinced ... [snip!] ... I'm afraid he's not going to go through with this now and be another guy that leaves his pregnant girlfriend with their baby.”

Tell him if he wants an abortion, he can exit himself completely out of the picture and that can be his way of an abortion. IT sounds like to me you'd be better off without him if he's gonna try to get you to do something like that after you guys decided to keep the baby. I kinda went through something similar.

Welp, time to put your big girl pants on sweet heart.

You cant keep him around if he doesnt want to be around.

 

dont get an abortion, not if you dont want to. Im totally against having abortions. It doesnt really make sense why he would be excited for a while and then not. Im a single mommy and my babydaddy was trying to talk me into not havin my son but I did wat I wanted to do and kept it and now hes happy I did and I would not change it for the world.

im sorry hun! and who know if he would even be in gang...no one knows this babys personality yet! no one even knows if its a him!!!

That's what happens when 16 year olds get pregnant.

You need to decide what you want to do.

Many women raise wonderful babies without the father, so it's possible for you to do it alone if he decides to leave.

You need to make the choice knowing that there is a possibility he will leave.

I wish you the best, good luck.

I know how you feel. Tyler was the EXACT same way about me. He would call Harper, Hannah because he was convinced we were having a girl. Then he wanted me to get an abortion, then he was going to take the baby from me, then I dumped the sorry POS. I'll be yo baby daddy if need be.

Quoting Ashley (Daniel's momma!):“ Sounds like your better off without him. What a douche.”

     

Quoting Ashley (Daniel's momma!):“ Sounds like your better off without him. What a douche.”

It really hurt my feelings that he could even say all of that to me after knowing for 2 weeks that I was going to keep the baby. I don't know what I'm going to do anymore.

And don't think that he'll "Eventually come around" cuz it usually doesn't happen.

Quoting adrians mama':“ dont get an abortion, not if you dont want to. Im totally against having abortions. It doesnt really ... [snip!] ... into not havin my son but I did wat I wanted to do and kept it and now hes happy I did and I would not change it for the world.”

I was going to get an abortion with my daughter, my BD told me I wasnt going to kill HIS child, now he's no where to be found.

Funny how that works eh?

Quoting ☆Jenniefahhhh☠:“ That's what happens when 16 year olds get pregnant.”

WTF is that supposed to mean?