re: BF Wants Abortion

Quoting B r i t t a n y !:“ I'm feeling great. I'm not having any symptoms besides being tired. What about you?”

well im almost 5 months (next friday) and right now i feel great too! the baby kicks alot and ive been really tired also but mine is nostly because i get uncomfortable and wake up several times to flip to my other side. but other than that im awesome! and just to warn you cravings are a bitch lol i hate when i want something but idk what it is or i cant get it. it sucksss! lol have you felt the baby move yet?

Quoting squishy!:“ well im almost 5 months (next friday) and right now i feel great too! the baby kicks alot and ive been ... [snip!] ... a bitch lol i hate when i want something but idk what it is or i cant get it. it sucksss! lol have you felt the baby move yet?”

I already cravings all the time and not that I know of. I always thought you couldn't feel the baby till at least 17-18 weeks along.

Quoting B r i t t a n y !:“ I already cravings all the time and not that I know of. I always thought you couldn't feel the baby till at least 17-18 weeks along.”

some people feel them sooner. i feltthe baby moveat 16 weeks. but idk.

I am 17 and i am going through something really similiar...I found out i was pregnant and i told my boyfriend..and for like 3 days all he would say is your getting an abortion right?? and evertime i would say no..he got mad one day and started fighting with me and started to grab my stomach sqeezing really hard so i called the cops and he got arrested...he was in jail for 5 days and when he got out he told me that he loved me and how he was sorry and he wanted to be there for me and the baby and he was excited to be a daddy..2 weeks went by 3 days before our 1 year he breaks up with me..it hurt me alot..but im getting over it..i dont want him to have anything to do with my baby..but his parents are planning on trying to get custody..its scary but i know i am going to be a great mom so they cant do anything.........the point is...forget him..i know it seems hard now..but it is whats best for you and your baby....i promise

Well my boyfriend wanted me to get an abortion in the beginning because he was scared but I didn't want to do that and I stood my ground. Now he is happy about it.
But that is exactly what you need to do. Stand your ground. If you don't want an abortion do not get one. You do what YOU want to do. If he doesn't want to be around then he is not even worth your time. You have a decision to make whether you want to keep your baby or not and he has to decide whether he wants to stand by your side with whatever you decide and that's it. I know it's hard to just say "fuck you, screw off, I don't need you if you don't want to be here" when you are in love but trust me if he is not willing to support you in your decision then he's not even worth it and you will find somebody that wants you and your baby. 

Quoting Rachael Leigh:“ Well my boyfriend wanted me to get an abortion in the beginning because he was scared but I didn't want ... [snip!] ... to support you in your decision then he's not even worth it and you will find somebody that wants you and your baby. ”

Mike is happy about the baby again and I know he will stand by my side.

Quoting squishy!:“ some people feel them sooner. i feltthe baby moveat 16 weeks. but idk.”

I'll feel the baby eventually haha.