re: Navy Wives....i need some advice =)

Quoting Proud-Mommy-2-An-Angel:“ well i talked to my hubby and he said hes not really even sure and sometime they dont get a choice they ... [snip!] ... they dont get a choice they get told, but if he does go over seas and u cant go, he gets alot of money on top of his base pay.”

ohh man, i was told that if he was stationed over seas i would go. but they also said that there is a very slim chance that married men go over seas, idk how true that is. the recruiter is a very very good friend of the family, so i doubt he would lie a lot to me ya know. i hope he gets land.

hahaha my friend that i was talking to is married with two kids and her hubby is over seas right now for the next year, im sorry to burst ur bubble on that one. and yeah depending on where he goes you may be able to go with him, *fingers crossed for you*

Quoting Adrienne Johannes:“ So my husband is currently in his fifth week of boot camp. Ireceiveda letter from him today saying ... [snip!] ... get used to it after a while? And also, once their active duty is finished, will he get some more time at home? Thanks ladies!”

Well someone i know is in the Navy, & he is never home. He gets shipped out all the time, and he is missing out on his sons life. So i would have a fit.

it sucks, but i've come to accept it. i'm okay with it. it's going to be hard without a doubt. but i support his decision 100%

hmmm well my hubby is in the navy... thru the beginning of my first trimiester and half of my third trimester my hubby was gone didnt come back until march 25, 2009...
he was here for the birth of our son and everything.. mama it gets hard, but you learn to deal with everything....

in my case my hubby might have to leave again pretty soon, i mean im upset, but hey he's doing it for our family... i mean im scared bcuz my son is still growing, and i dnt want him to leave and then come back and my son look at jim weird ya know...

but my hubby has a few more yrs to do and then maybe but maybe... he might get out.. but it'll get easier.... time apart will get stressful.. but its all worth everything in the end..

Quoting ♥Jayko's Mama♥:“ hmmm well my hubby is in the navy... thru the beginning of my first trimiester and half of my third trimester ... [snip!] ... maybe... he might get out.. but it'll get easier.... time apart will get stressful.. but its all worth everything in the end..”

thank you =) and i have come to realize that too. i was really stressed when he first told me..i mean everything stresses me out right now. but i've thought long and hard about it, and he wrote me in more letters saying that it will all be worth it and he wants to always be able to provide for us so we have everything we need, and so on. but he just found out he gets 10 day maternity leave =D i am thrilled. 

yea.. he'll get it...
and i just found out last night, that hubby is leaving again.. and its maybe from 6months to 1 yr.. im pretty upset and i took it out on him lastnight.. cuz they could be sending him put to iraq .. soo im really bummed, i know he's doing it for us and to give us a good living, but i dont want him to get hurt out there... i dont want to hear something bad has happened you know...


Now im stressing about it, cuz its in my head now...

Quoting ♥Jayko's Mama♥:“ yea.. he'll get it... and i just found out last night, that hubby is leaving again.. and its maybe ... [snip!] ... there... i dont want to hear something bad has happened you know... Now im stressing about it, cuz its in my head now...”

awhh =( i'm really sorry! i CAN'T imagine having to deal with that, and i don't want to. but reality is, it could happen to phill also, and that's what makes me nervous. i really hope everything goes well for you two. when does he leave?

he's not too sure, cuz he told me that its a pick... soo if he gets chosen, then he goes, but if he doesnt then he gets to stay home.... I mean i dont want him to go, but If he has too, I have to learn how to deal with it..Because we've been talking about gettin a house, and a new car... soo that one of the reasons why he wants it...
But i back him up 100%.... Sooo Im waiting patiently to see what happens...\