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Quoting jessika g:“ A baby growing inside of you has no soul? Why because they haven't come out.... I could see your child not having a soul(in the womb or not) because you don't seem to have one yourself...”

Once again. I don't knock your personal spiritual beliefs, why are you allowed to shit on mine (and thousands of others?)

Quoting Mara:“ i'm not saying you're cold... i just think that in that situation-- aborting in the third trimester ... [snip!] ... you wouldn't walk out of the clinic afterward w/out feeling that you'd experienced a loss-- and a serious loss at that.”

I didn't say I wouldn't feel like I hadn't had a loss. But I wouldn't mourn the abortion or the loss of the fetus. I would be sad over the fact that I obviously wasn't going to be having another baby at that point in time, after I had planned/accepted the fact that I was.

Quoting powergenitalia:“ I didn't say I wouldn't feel like I hadn't had a loss. But I wouldn't mourn the abortion or the loss ... [snip!] ... I obviously wasn't going to be having another baby at that point in time, after I had planned/accepted the fact that I was.”

i don't really understand why you wouldn't mourn the loss of the fetus...

i mean, you'd been planning for it-- so why not? it's not as if-- by being a fetus, they're not allowed to start having a place in you heart, right?

Quoting Mara:“ i don't really understand why you wouldn't mourn the loss of the fetus... i mean, you'd been planning ... [snip!] ... for it-- so why not? it's not as if-- by being a fetus, they're not allowed to start having a place in you heart, right?”

Like I said. Might as well mourn a chicken.

Quoting powergenitalia:“ Like I said. Might as well mourn a chicken.”

no, b/c you didn't carry that chicken inside your body for months and anticipate a life together w/ that chicken.

Quoting Mara:“ no, b/c you didn't carry that chicken inside your body for months and anticipate a life together w/ that chicken.”

So what? Why does that have to mean anything? Why am I a horrible human being because I don't feel an attachment to something that is nothing more than an empty body until it's born?

Quoting powergenitalia:“ So what? Why does that have to mean anything? Why am I a horrible human being because I don't feel an attachment to something that is nothing more than an empty body until it's born?”

lol you are a horrible person
so when you die... no one should morn you because you're dead and you have no soul? lol

Quoting powergenitalia:“ So what? Why does that have to mean anything? Why am I a horrible human being because I don't feel an attachment to something that is nothing more than an empty body until it's born?”

i'm not saying you're horrible... but i do think it's fairly natural and normal to begin to connect/attach to the life growing inside of you-- especially after you feel it moving around.

thus, it's fairly natural and normal to feel a loss when they're killed or die naturally while in the womb.

and they're not an empty body-- they're already a completely unique human-to-be w/ a genetic map that will never exist again... in the third trimester, they're responding to light and sound and have reflexes...

Quoting jessika g:“ lol you are a horrible person so when you die... no one should morn you because you're dead and you have no soul? lol”

  No, because I have a soul now dumbass. And when I die it will be returned the the Universe.

Though I don't believe people should mourn anyway, at least not in the way society does. We should celebrate the life they had, not lament over the life they no longer have.

Quoting Mara:“ i'm not saying you're horrible... but i do think it's fairly natural and normal to begin to connect/attach ... [snip!] ... a genetic map that will never exist again... in the third trimester, they're responding to light and sound and have reflexes...”

Without a soul, that means nothing. Absolutely nothing.

Quoting Mara:“ i'm not saying you're horrible... but i do think it's fairly natural and normal to begin to connect/attach ... [snip!] ... a genetic map that will never exist again... in the third trimester, they're responding to light and sound and have reflexes...”

also, if YOU are incapable of feeling attached to a child in your womb, it sounds like you've got some attachment issues...

i mean, i never said i "loved" max before he was born, b/c i hadn't yet met him, but he surely was a part of me and -- had he died while in my womb, it would've hurt me to lose him-- especially after i felt him moving around.

Quoting Mara:“ also, if YOU are incapable of feeling attached to a child in your womb, it sounds like you've got some ... [snip!] ... a part of me and -- had he died while in my womb, it would've hurt me to lose him-- especially after i felt him moving around.”

I don't have attachment issues.

Quoting powergenitalia:“ Without a soul, that means nothing. Absolutely nothing.”

i don't believe they have a soul either, but that doesn't mean i can't feel something for a living being who's growing inside of me.

i think you've got some issues w/ loving people... your answers are getting very choppy and weird.

Quoting Yesenia [SAF ♥]:“ lol her reason is because her BD is cheating and she wants to be with other guys she admitted that to me today.”

SMH

Quoting Mara:“ i don't believe they have a soul either, but that doesn't mean i can't feel something for a living being ... [snip!] ... who's growing inside of me. i think you've got some issues w/ loving people... your answers are getting very choppy and weird.”

I'm getting irritated. I don't have a problem loving people, I have a problem loving an unborn human being that doesn't have a soul. And you don't believe in souls at ALL which is what makes the difference - I do. I just don't believe it's given until you're born.