I want another one .........
posted 20th Jun '07
Gabe is now 4 and a half months old. He turns one the end of January. I want to start trying on his 1st birthday. But I don't know how to tell my boyfriend..or my family..they would had me if I did have another baby. I just know it.
quoteposted 20th Jun '07
Thankfully, your family doesn't get to decide how many children you have!! (at least I hope not) Now your boyfriend is a different story...might want to run it by him first. Good luck!!
quoteposted 20th Jun '07
Well..I mean. I'm 17. I know I'm young. But daniel has a VERY good job and we are expecting to move into our first house sometime around Christmas and well...its just .... I'm sure Daniel would be ok with it because he loves me and knows how important it is for me. But my family would so freaking disown me...they almost did over Gabey.
quoteposted 20th Jun '07
I cant say what your family is going to do if you pregnant again, I think might just be fear I know bec I want to have my kids in a 1 or 2 apart of eachother so they can grow up in protect eachother in whatever else. I personally I know that wont happen for quite some time bec of the situation I am in. All I can suggest is if you 2 want another child in know that you can take care of 2 children then it shouldnt matter what any body else thinks, hopefully they will eventually love the idea 2!
quoteposted 20th Jun '07
Who cares what your family thinks? Unless of course they're havnig to help you out financially or something. We started trying at 9 months but we didn't tell anyone that - who needs to know that you're trying?! That's like telling my parents that we're going to be having a lot of sex so if we don't come to the phone its because we're trying to make a baby lol. We share the news when we're pregnant. So if you're that worried about your family knowing, then don't tell them.
quoteposted 20th Jun '07
Daniel said he doesn't even want to talk about it right now. He said hell talk about it with me in a few weeks after things have calmed down around here. We are getting an apartment soon and he said that when we do we can discuss it and see how things are going. First he wants to buy some major things Gabe is going to need and then we can see if we can manage to save up money and if its plausible. I don't see how its not but then again he knows better about money then I do and really its better if we are a hundred percent sure we can take care of the little babe. So yea.....still got my fingers crossed.
quoteposted 20th Jun '07
krisy-tinaaaaa!!!! b online more wen i am nyaaa!!!
ohh guess wat! Leos turning into a lil Naruto! hes not Choji nemore! wen he sits up he has a very fine pointy face! n hes all blondie too!
so ur job is to turn ur Gaby into a Sasuke!! then we do photoshoots! XD
if u can afford it go 4 it!, well if Daniel agrees neways!!
quoteposted 20th Jun '07
My boyfriend tells me all the time that this is the only baby we are having and I just told him he cant control that he wont know if I am taking my birth control or whatever I will be on after the baby. He just wants to adopt a baby and I told him I want my own lil girl then we can adopt. So I hope he goes for it. I wont be happy with just having a boy I have to have my lil girl. I hope he is ready, you can convince him. Or just be like me and not give him a choice!
quoteposted 20th Jun '07
I wanted to have another child sooner but my husband didn't so it has been about 9 years since I had my son and we are just now on number 2. If you and your b/f are ready go for it but you both have to agree or it can cause trouble with your relationship.
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