re: my story

Im so sorry you had to go through that. Sorry for the what if's but do you think if you were older and could care for the baby would you have kept her?

Quoting Natalie~RIP Nina~:“ Im so sorry you had to go through that. Sorry for the what if's but do you think if you were older and could care for the baby would you have kept her?”

I know I would of made a great mama to her..but I couldn't raise a baby created out of rape/incest..   I thought about putting her up for adoption but I couldn't live with the idea that my child is out in the world and I couldn't see them everyday.

All of the ladies that have posted your stories in this topic, thank you. You guys are so string, especially to be able to talk about that kind of stuff. I wish I had your strength, but sadly I don't. I have so much respect for you guys.

Quoting Melissa says::“ I know I would of made a great mama to her..but I couldn't raise a baby created out of rape/incest.. ... [snip!] ... her up for adoption but I couldn't live with the idea that my child is out in the world and I couldn't see them everyday.”

Yeah. I understand.

Quoting Hoping  :“ i jumped to judgment because she said 17 weeks. thats the only reason. if someone had sex with a guy ... [snip!] ... its a child. but then again if i was 17 weeks and in the same situation as the op- i would have done the same thing she did.”

I know someone already posted what I wanted to post, and I dont judge girls that have abortions ESP the OP b/c I would of done the same thing, at least she calls it her baby and not justa group of cells, that is crazy my feeling is as soon as you hear that heartbeat it is a baby which I beleive it is at 2wks you can hear the heartbeat...so seriously miss hopeful get over yourself....

Your a strong lady..   I'm sorry that happened to you and I wish you all the best for the future!

Quoting Always waiting:“ I had my abortion when I was 16 years old. I was 17 weeks and 2 days along. I went to Hope Clinic for ... [snip!] ... of her DNA. I felt in my heart that she was a girl and I gave her a name; Miranda Lee. please do not copy & paste this.”

my heart goes out to you and i am so so sorry for your loss. it was so sad. and i am so sorry.

wow that sounds sad.

wow... I just cried... you are a very strong woman to go through all that...

girl thanks for sharing your story it made me come into reality i cant believe it went thru my mind to have an abortion. Wow it made me cried it made me think alot about my choices i have a 6 month old baby its going to be hard but not impossible to raise both of them once again i thank you for this post, and im sorry you had to go thru that i hope you are doing goo and God bless you.

Quoting M e l i s s a:" I had my abortion when I was 15 years old. I was 19w1d along according to my due date. The abortion ... [snip!] ... After 13 years he will have serviced 85% of his sentencing and could be released. please do not copy & paste this."

Wow you are one strong person. while i was reading your story i was wondering the whole time why did you have to go through something like that than i read the last part and omg you are really amazing. I just hope you can heal and one day be at peace.

Quoting M e l i s s a:" I'm sitting here crying my eyes out..I never thought I would get this much support from strangers. it's ... [snip!] ... to say but you can't do that when you were the victium.I really appriciate the kind words you ladies are saying. thank you."

I don't know how anyone could ask you to just forget about it. If your parents were the ones that pushed you into abortion, they should have been prepared to support you through it. I'm so so sorry you had to go through this and I hope that some day you can find peace with it. Your baby forgives you and you need to forgive yourself.

You're very Strong!!!! I am sorry for your pain but what don't kill you can only make you stronger!! That's horrible what your cousin did to you but I commend you for speaking up about it and he is in jail!! Unjust don't prosper!!! Be Blessed hun!!

Thhis is so sad, im sorry. I cryed when i read it.

well i started crying..